janab Quran aur Hadees se to dalail apke samne maujood hain agar apne thead ko gaurse dekha ho to
aur aap jo hadees ki baat kar rahe hain uske pure alfaz likhe reference k sath ye to adhi baat hai isse kuch pata nahi chal raha
Family Planning Par Apki Tassuraat
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aur aap jo hadees ki baat kar rahe hain uske pure alfaz likhe reference k sath ye to adhi baat hai isse kuch pata nahi chal raha
aray janab aap to lagta hai meri baat ka bura maan gaye mai ne toe k swal kia hta aap yeqeena koi deeni aalim ho gai isi liey is mozoo per deeni behas karwa rahe hai...mai ne ayat parhi thi jis ka hawala diya hai os ma lafz qatal istimal huwa hai aur planing wale to ek cheez peda hi nahi hone dete to qatal kis cheez ka ho qatal to kisi jandar cheez ka hota hai
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aur janab aap ne aur kisi se to hawala nahi manga shayad aapke matlab ki thi balke binte ayesha se to farmaya tha keh hadees yad nahi koi baat nahi alfaz to yad ho gai wohi bata dijye aur mujh se aap ko pakka hawala chahiye bohat khoob aur doosri baat deeni mamlaat ke kiye ham jese tifl-e-maktab logo se raye lena aur behas karwana samjh se balatar hai aur aakhri baat yeh koi aisa mozoo nahi jis per beth kar mard aur aurat beth kar makalma kare...sharam ko bhi malhooz-e-khatir rehna chahie keh shayad ham abhi itne libral nahi huwe bohat se log yaha unmarried hi hai...mai ek martaba phir maafi ka khwastgar hoo saviou sahab
Assalamu Alaykum Wrwb
mohtaram apki baton se zahir ho raha k aap hamse naraz hogaye hain
hamne apko itna hi kaha k Quran aur Hadees se dalail maujood hain agar apne gaur se padha ho to
aur dusri cheez Bint e Aisha se hamne kaha hadees k alfaz yaad hain to kahiye reference ham denge aur baad me hamne reference bhi diye par apne adhe alfaz likhe hain isliye apse hamne kaha ki aap uska reference den aur aap pehle shaqs nahi jinse hamne kaha hai
aur deen bade chote sab k liye hai beshak ham sab talib e ilm hain sikh rahe hain lekin khud ko tifl ka bahana dekar baith jayenge to deen ka kaam kaun karega aur apne kaha sharm ko bhi malhooz rakhna chahiye to deen ki baat karna haq baat batana apko sharm lag raha hai Allah k Rasul sallellahu alayhiwasallam ne farmaya BALLIGU ANNI WALAU AAYA agar apko ek bhi aaya ek bhi deen ki baat ka ilm hai to usse meri taraf se pahunchao aur family planning aaj ka hassaas mauzu hai ham zahiri asbab ko dekh kar ya khud ki khwahishon ko pura karne k liye family planning kara rahe hain to yahan hamara farz hai k ham jitna hamse hosake deen ki baat ko pahunchayen aur Quran me kayi maqamat par Allah ne farmaya
تَأْمُرُونَ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ وَتَنْهَوْنَ عَنِ الْمُنكَرِ وَتُؤْمِنُونَ بِاللّهِ
Ye enjoin right conduct and forbid indecency ; and ye believe in Allah. Al-i'Imran (3) Ayat (verse) No.: 110
logon ko burai se rokna aur bhalai ka hukm dena momin ka fariza hai aur ye mushre ki bohot badi burai hai jisse har mumkin koshish se khatam karna hai
apko Quran aur hadees se dalail chahiye ye apke samne ham pesh karte hain
Says Allah in the Qur'an: "So set you your face steadily and truly to the Faith: (Establish) Allah's handiwork according to the pattern on which He has made humankind: no change (let there be) in the work (wrought) by Allah: that is the standard Religion: but most among mankind understand not." (Al-Qur'an 30:30)
Bas aap sab ek so hoke apna muh deen ki taraf mutawajje karden, Allah tala ki wo fitrat jispar usne logon ko paida kiya hai, Allah tala k banaye huye ko badalna nahi yahi seedha deen hai, lekin aksar loog nahi samajhte.
The Prophet (pbuh) is reported to have said: "Marry the one who is loving and fertile, for I will be proud of your great numbers before the nations [i.e., on the Day of Resurrection]." (Abu Dawood Hadith no. 2050, Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Abi Dawood, 1805)
Allah k Rasul s.a.w ne farmaya shadi karo us se jo zyada mohabbat karnewali aur zyada bache janne wali ho, kal qayamat k din main apni ummat ki katheer tedat par faqr karunga
Agar ham apne jism k aaza ko badal rahe hain jaise mard nasbandi karate hain ya phir aurat ki bachedani nikal dete hain to upar ki aayat aur hadees par gaur Karen Allah k banaye huyi jism me tabdeeli karna ye sahi nahi balke khilaf e ilahi hai
agar insan rizq ke dar se family planning karta hai to bilkul galat hai uska Allah tala par bharosa sahih nahi hai
Allah says in the Glorious Qur'an "...kill not your children on a plea of want; We provide sustenance for you and for them;" (Al-Qur'an 6:151)
Aur apni aulaad ko iflaas (muflisi) ke darse qatal mat karo, ham tumko aur unko rizq dete hain
"Kill not your children for fear of want: We shall provide sustenance for them as well as for you: verily the killing of them is a great sin." (Al-Qur'an 17:31)
Aur muflisi k khauf se apni aulaad ko na maar dalo, inko aur tumko ham rozi dete hain, yaqeenan inka qatl karna kabeerah gunah hai
bukhari aur muslim ki hadees me hai k 40 raton k baad bache farishta bache me ruh dal deta hai agar ham abortion karayen to us bache ka Qatl hoga aur uski puch bhi hogi
In aayaton se saaf zahir hota hai k family planning haram hai aur kabeerah gunahon me se hai
mazeed aap is thread par nazar dalen
http://www.tafrehmela.com/islamic-question-answer/136077-family-planning-jayz-hai-ya-haram.html
Janab hamara kaam hai deen logon tak pahunchana ab koi isko mane na mane wo uske zimme hai
Allah hame deen ki sahi samajh aata farmaye Aameen
aray janab aap shayad meri baat samajh nahi rahe .... ek to aaj kal log hamesha ikhtilafi mozoo ko chun kar on bar deeni behas karna bohat aam hai....aap ko bhi umaate muslima ke hazaron masail mai yehi masla sab se bara laga aap ki marzi...phir yeh blood transfusion.pevandcari family planing yeh sab ikhtalafi masail hai jis per mukhtalif ulama ki mukhtalif raye hai...
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aap abortion tak pohach gaye woh to tab ho jab kuch peda ho jab peda hi nahi to qatal kesa...aap ahadees aur ayaat ka hawala de rahe yeh cheez koi mazaq nahi hai...har ayat ko os ke lafzi mane mai nahi liya jata bohat kuch dekha jata hai background ..os ki wajhe nazool kia thi waqhaira wagaira jo ke ek aalim hi kar sakta hai...agr fertitle wali hadees ko aap ke hisab se loo to bhanj aurat ya jis mai koi complication ho is ki shadi nahi honi chahiye kiyoo keh fertile aurat se shadi ka hukum hai
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tableeghe deen ke liye pehle deen ko seekhna zaroori hai...salo ki tarbiat hoti hai phir kahi ja ke tableegh ki ijazat milti hai...agar kaso nakas tableegh ke liya khara ho jaye to doon phelna to door aur intishar ka bais hota hai...han agar aap waqai aalim hai aur deen seekha huwa hai to shoq se aise masail per logo ki raye iljye aur behas kijye....
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jahan tak sharam ka taluq hai to mai kam az kam apne ghar ki aurato ke samne ye masla discuss nahi kar sakta to aisi jagah bhi nahi kar kar sakta jaha khawateen mojood ho..yaqeenan bohat se khawateen ne yeh thread parha ho ga aur sirf sharam ki wajah se is thread mai hissa nahi liya ho ga
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aap abortion tak pohach gaye woh to tab ho jab kuch peda ho jab peda hi nahi to qatal kesa...aap ahadees aur ayaat ka hawala de rahe yeh cheez koi mazaq nahi hai...har ayat ko os ke lafzi mane mai nahi liya jata bohat kuch dekha jata hai background ..os ki wajhe nazool kia thi waqhaira wagaira jo ke ek aalim hi kar sakta hai...agr fertitle wali hadees ko aap ke hisab se loo to bhanj aurat ya jis mai koi complication ho is ki shadi nahi honi chahiye kiyoo keh fertile aurat se shadi ka hukum hai
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tableeghe deen ke liye pehle deen ko seekhna zaroori hai...salo ki tarbiat hoti hai phir kahi ja ke tableegh ki ijazat milti hai...agar kaso nakas tableegh ke liya khara ho jaye to doon phelna to door aur intishar ka bais hota hai...han agar aap waqai aalim hai aur deen seekha huwa hai to shoq se aise masail per logo ki raye iljye aur behas kijye....
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jahan tak sharam ka taluq hai to mai kam az kam apne ghar ki aurato ke samne ye masla discuss nahi kar sakta to aisi jagah bhi nahi kar kar sakta jaha khawateen mojood ho..yaqeenan bohat se khawateen ne yeh thread parha ho ga aur sirf sharam ki wajah se is thread mai hissa nahi liya ho ga
janab aaj kal har mauzu me ikhtelaf hai aur ye hamara pehle thread nahi jo hamne ye mauzu chuna hai aur bhi kayi mauzu par yahan baten ho chuki hain
ab apke samne sare dalail rakhne k baad bhi aap baat ko samajh nahi pare
apne kaha
Allah K Rasul sallellahu alayhiwasallam ne kaha deen ki ek bhi baat maloom ho to meri taraf se pahunchao aur aap keh rahe ho salon ki tarbiat hoti hai...kiski mane
khair laa ikhraha fid deen hamara kaam pahunchana hai manna amal karwana ye zimmedari nahi
Allah hame deen ki sahi samajh aata farmaye Aameen
ab apke samne sare dalail rakhne k baad bhi aap baat ko samajh nahi pare
apne kaha
ab ye ijazat kaun dega hame ?
Allah K Rasul sallellahu alayhiwasallam ne kaha deen ki ek bhi baat maloom ho to meri taraf se pahunchao aur aap keh rahe ho salon ki tarbiat hoti hai...kiski mane
khair laa ikhraha fid deen hamara kaam pahunchana hai manna amal karwana ye zimmedari nahi
Allah hame deen ki sahi samajh aata farmaye Aameen
PARVARDIGAAR AZZAWAJAL ne humen salahiyat di hay iska ye bilkul matlab nahi k hum population ko barhatay jayen ye soch kar k ALLAH PAK humen rizq dene wala hay beshak WOHI ZAAT-E-PAK humen rizq dene wali hay par ALHAMDULILLAH we r sensible people, we can think what to do n what not to do... humen har cheez ko manage kar k chalna chahiye...
ask nasir sahab aapko bahot bahot mubarak baat jo aapne is bahetreen topic ka inteqab kia hi.aaj k is modern daur me har koi insan yeh chahta hi k uski zindagi ko ek plan k mutabeq guzare taake uski zindagi aaram se guzre theek isi tarha aksar logaon ko dekha jata hai k wo miarrage k baad tarha tarha ki planning karte hue nazar aate hain. usi me se ek hi family planning.log yeh chahte hain k shaadi k baad wo bacchaon ki tadad ko kumse kum rakhein isi liye wo hum do aur hamare do k usool par amal karte hain jo islami taur par sarasar ghalat hai.kyunki nabi e kareem sallallahu alaihi wasallam ne farmaya tha k jab shaadi karo to ziada bacche paida karne wali aurat se karo.aaj k daur me yeh baat hamein badi mayub nazar aati hi laikin.yahi such hai k har baccha is duniya me aane 60 saal pahele hi apna rizq likha kar aata hi.aur quran me Allah taala farma raha hai k tum apni aulad ko muflisi k darr se khatal na karo hum tumhe aur tumhai aulad ko dono rizq dene wale hain.log aksar chand ek wajuhat ki bina par is usool par amal karte hain .
1. muflisi k darr se
2. tarbiyat / parwarish k naam par : muflisi ka jawab to main de chuka hon.rahi baat parwarish ki k log yeh khayal karte hain k jitne kum bacche honge utni hi parwarish baheter andaz me ki jasakti hai.laikin main samajhta hon k unka yeh khayal ghalat hai.kyunke hamare samne kayi ek misalein aisi hain jo kaseer ul aulad hone k bawajood ek acche citizens hain misal k taur par DR ZAKIR NAIK hi ko lelijiye wo unke walid ki 5th aulad me se hain laikin wo professionally ek doctor hain aur usse badhkar wo ek islamic scholar hain jinka shumar duniya k religious scholar me 89th rank par hain. aur bhi bahot saari misalein hain. jo yahan par dijasakti hain.jo apne walid ki kaseer ul aulad hone k bawajood wo tareeq me apna ek maqam rakhte hain.isliye hamein chahiye k hum ye ghair muslimaon k tareeqaon ko na apnate hue islamic usoolaon par amal karein.Allah hamein kahne aur likhne se ziada amal karne ki taufeeq ata farmaye ameen.
1. muflisi k darr se
2. tarbiyat / parwarish k naam par : muflisi ka jawab to main de chuka hon.rahi baat parwarish ki k log yeh khayal karte hain k jitne kum bacche honge utni hi parwarish baheter andaz me ki jasakti hai.laikin main samajhta hon k unka yeh khayal ghalat hai.kyunke hamare samne kayi ek misalein aisi hain jo kaseer ul aulad hone k bawajood ek acche citizens hain misal k taur par DR ZAKIR NAIK hi ko lelijiye wo unke walid ki 5th aulad me se hain laikin wo professionally ek doctor hain aur usse badhkar wo ek islamic scholar hain jinka shumar duniya k religious scholar me 89th rank par hain. aur bhi bahot saari misalein hain. jo yahan par dijasakti hain.jo apne walid ki kaseer ul aulad hone k bawajood wo tareeq me apna ek maqam rakhte hain.isliye hamein chahiye k hum ye ghair muslimaon k tareeqaon ko na apnate hue islamic usoolaon par amal karein.Allah hamein kahne aur likhne se ziada amal karne ki taufeeq ata farmaye ameen.
mohtaram ap kis zawiye se baat kar rahe hain ham nahi samjhe
hame paida karne wala hamara khaliq zyada behtar janta hai k hame kya karna chahiye ya ham khud jante hain ?
Allah aur uske Rasul sallellahu alayhiwasallam ne jo hame hukm diya usko baja lana hamare upar farz hai ham agar amal nahi kar rahe hain to haq ka to inkar na karen apne kaha we are sensible people......agar haqeeqat me hamare andar itni salahiat hoti to aaj ham firqon me na bat te nahi apne bhaion ka khoon bahate hai
kya is rooh e zameen par Allah k Rasul sallellahu alayhiwasallam se bhi zyada sensible koi hai ?
The Prophet (pbuh) is reported to have said: "Marry the one who is loving and fertile, for I will be proud of your great numbers before the nations [i.e., on the Day of Resurrection]." (Abu Dawood Hadith no. 2050, Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Abi Dawood, 1805)
ab ham is hadees par amal karen ya phir apni soch par
Allah hame deen ki sahi samajh aata farmaye Aameen
Mutaram Saviou,
May apki baat se bohot had tak sehmat hun par mera wo matlab nahi tha jo ap ne samjha, mene kuch previous posts parhi thi jin ki waja se mene extra ordinary production na karne ki baat ki, anyways its nice to get an explanation from u.
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Aur haan most important baat...
ALLAH AZZAWAJAL K RASOOL (SALLALLAHO ALAIHI WASALLAM) se ziyada samajhdar dono jahan me koi nahi hay.
Allahi barik feek
Allah hame apni zindagi aise guzarne ki taufeeq de jisse teri raza hasil ho Aameen
Jazakallah khair mohtaram
aapne bohot hi ahsan andaz me baat ko samjhaye hain
Allah hame amal ki taufeeq de Aameen
mere khayal main family planning honi chaye khas kar aaj ke door main . itni mehngai aur afratafri ke alam main zyada bachoon ka hona nuksan ka bais hai . jab parents apne bachoon ki sari khuwaishat pori nahi kar pate toe woh bigarne lagte hain aur unkey dil main parents ke khilaf nafraten ya kuch is type ki baten janam leti hain. parents bhi majboor hote hain phr bachey barey ho kar apni zarooriat pori karne ki khud se koshish karte hain aur zyada tar jald se jald ki khuwaish rakhte hain, is ke badley agar kam bachey hon toe parents unki parwarish sahi tareeke se kar sakte hain. mere khayal main kisi ke 10 bache hon aur 10 main se 8 nalaik hon aur kisi ke 2 bache hon aur 2 ke 2 laiq hon toe aap khud faisla kar sakte hain humare mazhab aur mulk ko kaise bachoon ki zaroorat hai
shukriya janab apna khayal rakhne k liye
jis khaliq ne hame paida kiya hai ussi ne hamare liya ek kanoon banaya hai aur wo kanoon qayamat ki subha tak baki rahega aur usko follow karke hi hamari falah hogi
islam hame har mamle me rehnumai karta hai aisa koi pehlu nahi jisme ham andheron me hain har cheez wazeh aur roshan hai
apne kaha agar kisi ke 10 bache hon aur 10 main se 8 nalaik hon aur kisi ke 2 bache hon aur 2 ke 2 laiq hon
aise bhi hosakta hai na k 10 bache hon aur 10 k 10 hunhaar neik saleh layakh hon aur kisi k 2 bache hon don nalayakh hon aise bhi mumkin hai
lekin yahan baat hamare Allah par tawakkal aur uski farmabardari ki hai agar ham uske bataye huye kanoon par chalenge to 10 nahi 100 bachon ki parwarish bhi hosakti hai Insha Allah
agar ham uske kanoon k khilaf apni zindagi guzarenge to ek bache ko bhi nahi sambhal sakte
khair sab ki apni rai hai
mazeed is par maloomat k liye ap is thread par zaroor nazar dalen
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Allah hame deen ki sahi samajh aata farmaye Aameen
jis khaliq ne hame paida kiya hai ussi ne hamare liya ek kanoon banaya hai aur wo kanoon qayamat ki subha tak baki rahega aur usko follow karke hi hamari falah hogi
islam hame har mamle me rehnumai karta hai aisa koi pehlu nahi jisme ham andheron me hain har cheez wazeh aur roshan hai
apne kaha agar kisi ke 10 bache hon aur 10 main se 8 nalaik hon aur kisi ke 2 bache hon aur 2 ke 2 laiq hon
aise bhi hosakta hai na k 10 bache hon aur 10 k 10 hunhaar neik saleh layakh hon aur kisi k 2 bache hon don nalayakh hon aise bhi mumkin hai
lekin yahan baat hamare Allah par tawakkal aur uski farmabardari ki hai agar ham uske bataye huye kanoon par chalenge to 10 nahi 100 bachon ki parwarish bhi hosakti hai Insha Allah
agar ham uske kanoon k khilaf apni zindagi guzarenge to ek bache ko bhi nahi sambhal sakte
khair sab ki apni rai hai
mazeed is par maloomat k liye ap is thread par zaroor nazar dalen
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Allah hame deen ki sahi samajh aata farmaye Aameen
I think we should believe on Quality not on Quantity.
Iss waqat Muslims poori dunya mein sub say ziyada hain leekan muthi bhar jews unn par havi hain ? Keon ? kabhi socha aap nay!
Alhamdulillah mein aik muslim hoon leekan iss ghissi pitti daleel ko naheen manta kah ummat ziyada honay say deen phailay ga. Nabi Karim kay sath chund sahaba karam thay aur unhoon nay poori dunya mein Islam phaila dia tha.
Hamain Achay aur neek Aalim banana chahiye nah kah sirf aur sirf ummat barhanay par zoor daina chahiye.
Sorry if you mind my any words but its a bitter truth.
yes manay mind kia hay apki bat ko,but apnay sory keh diya to its ok now..
ha to musalman apnay kartoto ki waja say aj kamozor qowat bun rahay hay na...q k humnay kuda par brosa chor diya hay k amrica say imdad aye ge to hum khana kaye gay warna bhokay mar jaen gay...
pehlay mutti bar sahaba jo tay na wo log taptay howay weeran sehra may b is ommed k sat nikal partay tay k Allah unka madadgar hoga,unhi sehra may wo log apni pyas b bojatay tay,or bhook b mitatay tay...ab kasay?ye to wo log he jantay tay k unk rub nay kis kis tara unki madad ki,k agar hum aj sochay to aqal dhang reh jaye....
bat quantity ki he hay silent bhai,agar ap deen ki rah par sabit qadme say chalo,or kuda par kamil brosa karo to tab dekye ga k hamara islam ka bol bala kasay nae hota...
Toobah jee aap aik tarf to kah rahi hain kah muthi bhar sahaban jehad key liye Allak kay asray par nikkal partay thay aur phir aap kah rahi hain kah Baat Quantity key hay ? aap khud bhi confuse hain aur mujhay bhi confuse kar rahi hain.
Baat Quality key hoti hay aur aap nay iss baat ko taslim bhi kia hay tou aabadi barhatay hoye iss baat to daleel banana kah hum muslims key aabadi mein qataan ghalat hay.
Agar aik shakahs aur hamaray samnay hazaroon misalain bikhri pari hain kah aik shakash jo khota rehri chalta hay 5 girls ka father hay woh larkday key liye koshish karta raha ga aur 7 baiteon kay baad aik baita paa kar buhat khush hoga. Aab mujhay batain woh apni 7 baiteon aur baitay ko kia taleem dilwai ga ? Astaghfirullah mujhay kahna naheen chahiye woh baychara khud aur apnay bachoon ko deen tuk key taleem dilwa naheen sakta hay aur aap kah rahi hain challo g Mulim Umma key aabadi mein izzafa to ho gia !!!!
Theek hay Allah rizzaq dainay walla hay leekan iss ka matlub hargiz naheen kah aap wasail nah honay kay bawajood yah silalla jari rakhain .....
Daikhain iss waqat argument ho rahi hay aur kissi ko bhi bura naheen manana chahiye. Zahir see baat hay har koi mujh say yaa aap say mutafiq naheen ho sakta aur bahas karna uss ka haq hay