"Net Addiction"(Question of the Week 24th july 2012)!

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ahan... achaai or burai har nafas main Allah ne dali hai.. Bila waja ki rok Tauk hamesha bachay ko kharab karti hai aur uss kay zehen ko weak karti hai... aksar maan baap apnay bacho pe sakhti kar kay un ka dimagh karab kartay hai.. Jis se bichay chirchray hotay hian.... Kisi ki baat nahi suntay ..... Zidi hotay hain.. Agar aik bacha internet use kar raha hai to us ko khuli azadi di jaye.. Taka woh uss cheez se khud tang aye aur khud deside karay yeh cheez us kay liey kahan achi hai.... Agar us pe panbandian lagao gay tau phir woh ghalat tareeqay use karay ga.. Azadi bohat bhari naimat hai Appa... Jo log bacho pe sakhti kartay hain woh log bacho ko ghulam banatay hain.. Aesay bachay kuch soch nahi saktay.. Un ki soch bohat mehdood hoti .. Indian movies dekhtay hain.. kyun kay english un ko samj nahi ati ... Hamesha dosron pe depend kartay hain... Azadi ki koi age nahi hoti jo bacha shuru se azad hota hai woh hamesha azad rehta hai.. mje dekho koi dar nahi koi khof nahi.. :p
oooopsh aap western country may nhi hain :p
pabandi rok tauk ka matlab sirf daantna,ghussa karna hi hi hota,,
baat control karne ki hay,,balance karne ki hay,,bachon ko unki nfsiyaat k mutabiq treat karte hain parents us k mutabiq unko control karte hain ,,wo konsa unhe ghar may qayd rakhte hain,,magar dusri healthy activites ki taraf unka dehan dilwate hain apne behan bhaio k saath time spend karne ki taraf unhe mutwajja rakhte hain aur bache enjoy bhi karte hain ye sab internet hamesha se to nhi hay na,,,ab hay to usse bhi kisi na kisi tara routine may set kiya jata hay q k schools may computer compulsory subject hay (parents ki duty double ho gai ab)
waise to Bachon ko bhi parents pe aitmaad hota hay, thora bohat dar bhi zaruri hay aur us se Ziada PArents k hukam ka ehtraam zaruri hay jab wo sense bachon may daali jaati hay wo khud ko ghulaam nhi samajhte aur na hi unhe lagta hay k parents k maqsad unhe ghulaam bnana hay,,,waise aisi soch maine bachon ki dekhi bhi nhi hay k wo khud ko Parents ka ghulaam samjhye,,,phir bhi sometimes baahir kuch friends bhi aise ban jaate hain jinka khud ka dimagh khiska hua hota hay to wo bhi bachon k mind may aisi batain daal daite hain,,,
Baat sirf soch ki hay jidar marzi mor lain..
But aik khaas umar tak Internet jesi hasas aijaad k baghair rok tok istamal k main to against hun,,,
ab to education se related bhi koi site pe ho aap to ads itni fazul kisam ki hoti hay side may k bache udhar bhi click kar jaate hain udhar se phir aage aur aage,,[DOUBLEPOST=1343271227][/DOUBLEPOST]
ahan... achaai or burai har nafas main Allah ne dali hai.. Bila waja ki rok Tauk hamesha bachay ko kharab karti hai aur uss kay zehen ko weak karti hai... aksar maan baap apnay bacho pe sakhti kar kay un ka dimagh karab kartay hai.. Jis se bichay chirchray hotay hian.... Kisi ki baat nahi suntay ..... Zidi hotay hain.. Agar aik bacha internet use kar raha hai to us ko khuli azadi di jaye.. Taka woh uss cheez se khud tang aye aur khud deside karay yeh cheez us kay liey kahan achi hai.... Agar us pe panbandian lagao gay tau phir woh ghalat tareeqay use karay ga.. Azadi bohat bhari naimat hai Appa... Jo log bacho pe sakhti kartay hain woh log bacho ko ghulam banatay hain.. Aesay bachay kuch soch nahi saktay.. Un ki soch bohat mehdood hoti .. Indian movies dekhtay hain.. kyun kay english un ko samj nahi ati ... Hamesha dosron pe depend kartay hain... Azadi ki koi age nahi hoti jo bacha shuru se azad hota hai woh hamesha azad rehta hai.. mje dekho koi dar nahi koi khof nahi.. :p
 
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:) ap n merea ramzaan k thread nhi daikhey na hi like kiye aur na hi koi coments kiye{)^})
 
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:) ap n merea ramzaan k thread nhi daikhey na hi like kiye aur na hi koi coments kiye{)^})
Oh sorry appo routine thori bz ho gai thi phir aik do problems b rhi to dehan nhi de paayi. Wapis aa k inshaallah sab dekhti jun :)[DOUBLEPOST=1343274803][/DOUBLEPOST]
:) ap n merea ramzaan k thread nhi daikhey na hi like kiye aur na hi koi coments kiye{)^})
Oh sorry appo routine thori bz ho gai thi phir aik do problems b rhi to dehan nhi de paayi. Wapis aa k inshaallah sab dekhti jun :)
 
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:)INSHA ALLAH ALLAH khair krey ga....koi pareshani ho tou uski dua hai....:).....wo parha kro....INSHA ALLAH ALLAH bara kareem hai karam krney wala...
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meri aik post ghaib ho gi hai.. appa ki post ka jowab dia tha.. Yeh don or Appa ki saazish hai koi.. Main nahi khelta ab.. {}{4rt5[DOUBLEPOST=1343275972][/DOUBLEPOST]

Jee haan.. Us ki waja yeh en kas paas apnay thread dekhnay ka time hota hai baas...
:oops:uhhhhhhh sachi bari jaldi jaldi likhti hon:( time hi nhi hota
 
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1.Sab se pehle addiction kia hai?
kisi bhi cheez ya kaam ka itna ziada karna ke usko apni habit bana lena addiction hai.
Har addiction bura nhi hota.
2.Kia addiction gud aur bad dono qualities rlhta hai?
jee aesa he hota hai. for exp. kisi ko studies ka shoq hota hai to kisi ko logon ki help karne ka to kisi ko Knowledge gain karne ka addiction hota hai.
3.Kia net addiction gud hai ya bad?
Agar positive activities ke liye net use kia hai to bhi hum net addiction ko justify nhi karsakte Q ke as according to psychologist ek he position main ghanto bethna humari mental and physicla health ke liye nuksan dehhai.
Ab yahan yeh bat aati hai ke Net mai aesa kia hai jo humain iska addcited bana deta hai? dekha yeh gaya hai online gaming. chatting aur social networking(facebook,etc) he ziadatar net users ko attravt karte hain jiski improtant reason yeh ke log ajj apni real life se dor bhagte hain jab wo yeh mehsoos karte hain ke real world jesa hum chahte hain aur jis tarhan ke log se relation rakhna chahte hain, wese halat aur log unhe nhi milte then woh net ki world ko fantasy land samajh kar issi mai panha dhondne lag jate hain aur apne kareebi rishton se dor hokar fake relations and world mai gum hojate hain.
sab log aese nhi hote lekin ziadatar net ko positive purpose keliye use nhi karte. ek research ke mutabiq facebook users mai 10 years ki age ke kids ka aizafa horaha hai. yeh dekhte howe Stuart Crabb, director in Facebook’s executive offices ko akhir yeh kehna para ke
''Ab sab bas karen aur apni haqiqi duniya main jain aur real people main waqt guzaren''
Soren Gordhamer, Wisdom 2.0 ki founder
''Main har sturday ko apna mobile aur net se peecha chora kar painting aur poetry mai waqt bitati hoon isse mere rouh aur dimag dono ko sookon milta hai''
Ab app andaza karsakte hain tech world and social networking ke founders net addiction ke bare mai kia sochte hain.
over gaming ke natije main violence tezi se virus ki tarhan phel raha hai aur bachon counter strike etc jaise games ki wajha se tashaddud pasand bante jarahe hain jiske zimedar sirf parents hain.
bachon ko kabhi itni azadi na dain ke woh jo chahen karain yeh keh kar apni jan nhi chura leni chahiye ke ''humare bache samjhdar hain humain in par bharosa hai''.Bachon ki activites par pori nazar rakhni chahiye behter yahi hai ke unke sath beth kar unko painting,reading,writing ya kisi aur activities ki masroof rakhain take woh mentally aur physically healthy reh saken.
aur hum baron ko apne aims and objectives banate time apne kuch rulez bhi bana lene chahiye jaise kabhi ghalat kaam nhi karna,fazool baton aur kamon se bachna hai etc. Jab app apne rulez ko follow karenge to kabhi bhi koi bhi chez ya insna appko ghalat rate par nhi dal skti/sakta. [DOUBLEPOST=1343647155][/DOUBLEPOST]Sorry hoorain appki ijazat ke baghir yeh post karrahi hoon mujhy samjh nhi araha tha ke mai kahan thread banakar post karun

jee apni calculations karen aur check karlen ke kahin app net ke CHARSI to nhi hain:p

Internet Addiction Test (IAT) by Dr. Kimberly Young.
Internet Addiction Test (IAT) is a reliable and valid measure of addictive use of Internet, developed by Dr. Kimberly Young. It consists of 20 items that measures mild, moderate and severe level of Internet Addiction.
To begin, answer the following questions by using this scale:-
0
Does not apply
1
Rarely
2
Occasionally
3
Frequently
4
Often
5
Always




Question

Scale
1-How often do you find that you stay on-line longer than you intended? 1
2
3
4
5
0

2-How often do you neglect household chores to spend more time on-line?
1
2
3
4
5
0

3-How often do you prefer the excitement of the Internet to intimacy with your partner?
1
2
3
4
5
0

4-How often do you form new relationships with fellow on-line users?
1
2
3
4
5
0

5-How often do others in your life complain to you about the amount of time you spend on-line?
1
2
3
4
5
0

6-How often do your grades or school work suffers because of the amount of time you spend on-line?
1
2
3
4
5
0

7-How often do you check your email before something else that you need to do?
1
2
3
4
5
0


8-How often does your job performance or productivity suffer because of the Internet?
1
2
3
4
5
0

9-How often do you become defensive or secretive when anyone asks you what you do on-line?
1
2
3
4
5
0

10-How often do you block out disturbing thoughts about your life with soothing thoughts of the Internet?
1
2
3
4
5
0

11-How often do you find yourself anticipating when you will go on-line again? 1
2
3
4
5
0

12-How often do you fear that life without the Internet would be boring, empty, and joyless?
1
2
3
4
5
0

13-How often do you snap, yell, or act annoyed if someone bothers you while you are on-line?
1
2
3
4
5
0

14-How often do you lose sleep due to late-night log-ins?
1
2
3
4
5
0

15-How often do you feel preoccupied with the Internet when off-line, or fantasize about being on-line?
1
2
3
4
5
0

16-How often do you find yourself saying “just a few more minutes” when on-line?
1
2
3
4
5
0

17-How often do you try to cut down the amount of time you spend on-line
1
2
3
4
5
0
and fail?

18-How often do you try to hide how long you’ve been on-line?
1
2
3
4
5
0

19-How often do you choose to spend more time on-line over going out with others?
1
2
3
4
5
0

20-How often do you feel depressed, moody or nervous when you are off-line, which goes away once you are back on-line?
1
2
3
4
5
0
Total up the scores for each item. The higher your score, the greater level of addiction is.
20 – 49 points:
You are an average on-line user. You may surf the Web a bit too long at times, but you have control over your usage.
50 – 79 points:
You are experiencing occasional or frequent problems because of the Internet. You should consider their full impact on your life.
80 – 100 points:
Your Internet usage is causing significant problems in your life. You should elevate the impact of the Internet on your life and address the problems directly caused by you Internet usage.
 
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1.Sab se pehle addiction kia hai?
kisi bhi cheez ya kaam ka itna ziada karna ke usko apni habit bana lena addiction hai.
Har addiction bura nhi hota.
2.Kia addiction gud aur bad dono qualities rlhta hai?
jee aesa he hota hai. for exp. kisi ko studies ka shoq hota hai to kisi ko logon ki help karne ka to kisi ko Knowledge gain karne ka addiction hota hai.
3.Kia net addiction gud hai ya bad?
Agar positive activities ke liye net use kia hai to bhi hum net addiction ko justify nhi karsakte Q ke as according to psychologist ek he position main ghanto bethna humari mental and physicla health ke liye nuksan dehhai.
Ab yahan yeh bat aati hai ke Net mai aesa kia hai jo humain iska addcited bana deta hai? dekha yeh gaya hai online gaming. chatting aur social networking(facebook,etc) he ziadatar net users ko attravt karte hain jiski improtant reason yeh ke log ajj apni real life se dor bhagte hain jab wo yeh mehsoos karte hain ke real world jesa hum chahte hain aur jis tarhan ke log se relation rakhna chahte hain, wese halat aur log unhe nhi milte then woh net ki world ko fantasy land samajh kar issi mai panha dhondne lag jate hain aur apne kareebi rishton se dor hokar fake relations and world mai gum hojate hain.
sab log aese nhi hote lekin ziadatar net ko positive purpose keliye use nhi karte. ek research ke mutabiq facebook users mai 10 years ki age ke kids ka aizafa horaha hai. yeh dekhte howe Stuart Crabb, director in Facebook’s executive offices ko akhir yeh kehna para ke
''Ab sab bas karen aur apni haqiqi duniya main jain aur real people main waqt guzaren''
Soren Gordhamer, Wisdom 2.0 ki founder
''Main har sturday ko apna mobile aur net se peecha chora kar painting aur poetry mai waqt bitati hoon isse mere rouh aur dimag dono ko sookon milta hai''
Ab app andaza karsakte hain tech world and social networking ke founders net addiction ke bare mai kia sochte hain.
over gaming ke natije main violence tezi se virus ki tarhan phel raha hai aur bachon counter strike etc jaise games ki wajha se tashaddud pasand bante jarahe hain jiske zimedar sirf parents hain.
bachon ko kabhi itni azadi na dain ke woh jo chahen karain yeh keh kar apni jan nhi chura leni chahiye ke ''humare bache samjhdar hain humain in par bharosa hai''.Bachon ki activites par pori nazar rakhni chahiye behter yahi hai ke unke sath beth kar unko painting,reading,writing ya kisi aur activities ki masroof rakhain take woh mentally aur physically healthy reh saken.
aur hum baron ko apne aims and objectives banate time apne kuch rulez bhi bana lene chahiye jaise kabhi ghalat kaam nhi karna,fazool baton aur kamon se bachna hai etc. Jab app apne rulez ko follow karenge to kabhi bhi koi bhi chez ya insna appko ghalat rate par nhi dal skti/sakta. [DOUBLEPOST=1343647155][/DOUBLEPOST]Sorry hoorain appki ijazat ke baghir yeh post karrahi hoon mujhy samjh nhi araha tha ke mai kahan thread banakar post karun

jee apni calculations karen aur check karlen ke kahin app net ke CHARSI to nhi hain:p

Internet Addiction Test (IAT) by Dr. Kimberly Young.
Internet Addiction Test (IAT) is a reliable and valid measure of addictive use of Internet, developed by Dr. Kimberly Young. It consists of 20 items that measures mild, moderate and severe level of Internet Addiction.
To begin, answer the following questions by using this scale:-
0
Does not apply
1
Rarely
2
Occasionally
3
Frequently
4
Often
5
Always




Question

Scale
1-How often do you find that you stay on-line longer than you intended? 1
2
3
4
5
0

2-How often do you neglect household chores to spend more time on-line?
1
2
3
4
5
0

3-How often do you prefer the excitement of the Internet to intimacy with your partner?
1
2
3
4
5
0

4-How often do you form new relationships with fellow on-line users?
1
2
3
4
5
0

5-How often do others in your life complain to you about the amount of time you spend on-line?
1
2
3
4
5
0

6-How often do your grades or school work suffers because of the amount of time you spend on-line?
1
2
3
4
5
0

7-How often do you check your email before something else that you need to do?
1
2
3
4
5
0


8-How often does your job performance or productivity suffer because of the Internet?
1
2
3
4
5
0

9-How often do you become defensive or secretive when anyone asks you what you do on-line?
1
2
3
4
5
0

10-How often do you block out disturbing thoughts about your life with soothing thoughts of the Internet?
1
2
3
4
5
0

11-How often do you find yourself anticipating when you will go on-line again? 1
2
3
4
5
0

12-How often do you fear that life without the Internet would be boring, empty, and joyless?
1
2
3
4
5
0

13-How often do you snap, yell, or act annoyed if someone bothers you while you are on-line?
1
2
3
4
5
0

14-How often do you lose sleep due to late-night log-ins?
1
2
3
4
5
0

15-How often do you feel preoccupied with the Internet when off-line, or fantasize about being on-line?
1
2
3
4
5
0

16-How often do you find yourself saying “just a few more minutes” when on-line?
1
2
3
4
5
0

17-How often do you try to cut down the amount of time you spend on-line
1
2
3
4
5
0
and fail?

18-How often do you try to hide how long you’ve been on-line?
1
2
3
4
5
0

19-How often do you choose to spend more time on-line over going out with others?
1
2
3
4
5
0

20-How often do you feel depressed, moody or nervous when you are off-line, which goes away once you are back on-line?
1
2
3
4
5
0
Total up the scores for each item. The higher your score, the greater level of addiction is.
20 – 49 points:
You are an average on-line user. You may surf the Web a bit too long at times, but you have control over your usage.
50 – 79 points:
You are experiencing occasional or frequent problems because of the Internet. You should consider their full impact on your life.
80 – 100 points:
Your Internet usage is causing significant problems in your life. You should elevate the impact of the Internet on your life and address the problems directly caused by you Internet usage.
ahem ahem ahem an Awesome article i must say :-bd
BEauitfuly replied by u silent :-bd
agar to ye sab aap k khud k hi words hain to isse TM articles section may alag se bhi post kariye
n 2nd post pe baat cheet section may alag se bhi thread lgayain ,,Title rakh lain,,Chekc how much u r addictive to internet!

once again chaa gai ho silent ;)
keep sharing ur precious views with us :)
 
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ahem ahem ahem an Awesome article i must say :-bd
BEauitfuly replied by u silent :-bd
agar to ye sab aap k khud k hi words hain to isse TM articles section may alag se bhi post kariye
n 2nd post pe baat cheet section may alag se bhi thread lgayain ,,Title rakh lain,,Chekc how much u r addictive to internet!

once again chaa gai ho silent ;)
keep sharing ur precious views with us :)
hoorain maine he likha hai Actually 3 years pehle maine appne forum jahan mai mod thi wahan net addcition par research karke ek thread banai thi bas ajj maine aur ziada study karke yahan reply kardiya:)
Thank u so much for appreciation{()|asf
Acha kia waqai maine itna acha likha ke yeh article banne ke laiq hai?
Acha mai abhi baat cheet section mai ek thread post karti hoon:)
 
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hoorain maine he likha hai Actually 3 years pehle maine appne forum jahan mai mod thi wahan net addcition par research karke ek thread banai thi bas ajj maine aur ziada study karke yahan reply kardiya:)
Thank u so much for appreciation{()|asf
Acha kia waqai maine itna acha likha ke yeh article banne ke laiq hai?
Acha mai abhi baat cheet section mai ek thread post karti hoon:)
ye Article hi hay :p

Pehli post ko TM articles may share karain,,NET ADDICTIOn title se

2nd post k Questions Baat cheet section may post karain :-bd
 
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