PARESHANI

shehr-e-tanhayi

Super Magic Jori
Super Moderator
Wa Alaykum Assalam

pareshani k kayi asbaab hain aur kis nahiye se ya kis mamle me banda pareshan ho raha hai wo bhi dekhna padega
behre haal aksar log haqeeqat se door hote hain ya haq baat ko samajhte nahi maante nahi aur pareshan hote hain

wallahu Aalam
jawab dene ka bahot shukria @saviou Mohtram.

to aap k kehne ka matlab yeh huwa k jab hum haqayeq ko nazarandaz kartay huvay be-waja ki baatoN ko khud par musalat kar lete hain to pareshan ho jatay hain?
 

Don

Administrator
Walekum Salam.

I think pareshan hona human nature may hai and ek limit tak pareshan hona normal hai. Log pareshan hote hain kiun k unhay future ka nahi pata. Wo kisi kaam jo un say ya un k loved ones say related ho us k buray anjaaam k hone k dar say pareshan hote hain.
 

Armaghankhan

Likhy Nhi Ja Sakty Dukhi Dil K Afsaany
Super Star
@shehr-e-tanhayi
Walikum Assalam
Bohat acha mozo rakha hy hum logo ko achi baton par bat karni cahiy..Bat ya hy insan jab duniya main ata hy to aus k sath acha bora sab hota hy jo k Allah ki taraf sy hota hy ya hamary naseeb main hota hy hum aus ko dill par likar prechan hoty hain humain Allah sy dua karna cahiy k Allah hamary huq main behtar kary Allah humain tamam azhmash aor prechaniu sy apni marzi sy nikal....
magar kia Karin insan hy jald ghbrajaty hain hum to ya bhi nahi sochty k is main sayad koi hamari hi behtri ho...
stop sy bus nikal jay ya train ya plan hum preshan hony laghty hain ya nahi soch ty k Allah ny ais main bhi koi bat poshida rakhi hy jo hamary haq main hy.......................
sayad main bhi sab ki tarha hon magar ab many apniy ap ko bohat chang kar liya hy
apny gussay ko kise ki preshani ka hissa nahi banata kahmoosh ho jata ho Allah hum sab ko har kisam ki preshani taklifo sy nijat dain hum sab ko khosian aor kamyabi ata farmain.......................................................
 

saviou

Manager
jawab dene ka bahot shukria @saviou Mohtram.

to aap k kehne ka matlab yeh huwa k jab hum haqayeq ko nazarandaz kartay huvay be-waja ki baatoN ko khud par musalat kar lete hain to pareshan ho jatay hain?
nazar andaaz ya phir haqayeq ko manna hi nahi to ye sabab banta hai pareshani ka
chahe deeni muamla ho ya duniyawi
 

arzi_zeest

Senior Member
وعليكم السلام
Acha topic hai behna
Mukhtalif sabab se ensaan pershan hota hai . jub hum kuch apne zehan k mutabik na paye tuo pershan hona shoru ho jate hai .kabhi khud ki kesi baat se ya kabhi kesi dosre ki wajha se .bahut si pershanae deen ki doori ki wajha se bhi hoti hain jo ensaan ki khud ki wajha se hoti hain zindagi ko mushkil banane se.Hadees e pak ka mafhoom hai Allah pak jis k sath bhalae ka eraad farmata hai ose deen ki samjh at a farmata hai ,sabar ,shukr ,Qana'at. ,kifyat sha'ari, lalch hasad hirs se bechna,Allah ki riza mein razi rehna bahut se aisi cheezain ensaan ko bahut si pershanio se bachati hai jin se hum ajj door hai amli toor se tuo aj pershan hain .mesaal do GI tuo zaida bada ho jye ga reply. es se nikalna as an bhi hai aur baaz dafa bahut mushkil bhi .es ka hul yeah hai sub se phly Allah pr bhorsa rakhe. ilm deen hasil kare. agar choti choti cheezo se pershan ho rahe hon tuo onhne nazar andaz kare jaise kuch gum ho jye ya kaam ko heavy krna dimag pr aur bhi bahut se batain jo rozana ki zindagi mein ho. aur koe badi baton se pershan hon tuo os ka solution talash kare ?mashwara kare apno se jo ap se sincere ho .dua kare .daroord e pak perhain. Namaz tuo hai he farz.
Kuch batain humre liye waqae pershan krne wali hoti hain long time tuk jub WO kesi se related ho ..pr kaash duniya ki pershani se zaida Hume qabar akhirat k mamle mein pershan hone wale bun jye jis pershani mein sakon hai
 

shehr-e-tanhayi

Super Magic Jori
Super Moderator
Ma sha Allah bahot achay jawab milay hain sab ki tarf se. Kal In Sha Allah sab ko reply kartay hain. Umeed kartay hain k ye silsala aagay barhnay aur apnay khiyalaat share karne se humein zaroor achi baatein seekhnay ko milein gi.
 

shahnawazaamir

Regular Member
السلام علیکم،
اچھا موضوع ہے پریشانی کے اسباب، ، میرے نزدیک پریشانی تین اقسام کی ہوتی ہیں۔
1۔ دوسروں کی طرف مسلط کردہ
2۔ آزمائشی پریشانی
3۔ خود ساختہ
جو پہلی اور تیسری قسم کی پریشانی ہم کو بہت زیادہ تکلیف میں مبتلا کردیتی ہے جو کہ اپنے لوگو ں کی طرف سے
مسلط ہوتئ ہے اور کوشش کے باوجود ختم نہیں ہوتی وجہ آپس کی ناچاکیاں
دوسری قسم آزمائشی ہے جو کہ قدرتی ہوتی ہے اور عارضی ہوتی ہے اور اس کا صلہ بھی ملتا ہے
تیسری خود ساختہ ہوتی جس کی وجہ سے بندہ نفسیات کی طرف چلا جاتا ہے ؎

 

Shiraz-Khan

Super Magic Jori
Super Moderator
Ws...
Nice one...

mere Nazdeek pareshaniyun me aksaryat amal dakhal insan ka khud b hota hey...
Jis me sub sey bara reason Allaah or us k Rasool Sallalla... k bataey hoey tareeqon per na chal ker. bulkey dosron k tareeqon ko apni life me apna ker apni naqis aqal ki wajase parshaniyaan paalta hey.

kuch pareshaniyaan aisi b hoti hen jo Allaah pak apne khaas bandu ko azmata hey un k darjaat mazeed boland kerne k liye or imaan pukhta kerne k liye. is baat ka hamey is tarah pata chalta hey k jab kisi per aati hein tu wo Allaah ki taraf mutawajjo hojata hey means Allaah se hal kerwane me or Astaghfaar me lagjata hey.

0r kuch Pareshaniyaan aisi b hoti hen jo Allaah k azab ki sorat me ati hen... insan Allaah ki taraf jane k bajaey mazeed ghalat raste per chala jata hey.


Allaah pak mujh sameth hum sub ko sahi smjh or sahi yaqeen k sath zindagi guzarne wala banaden wid aafiat aameen..



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St0rm

Hot Shot
Ws...
Nice one...

mere Nazdeek pareshaniyun me aksaryat amal dakhal insan ka khud b hota hey...
Jis me sub sey bara reason Allaah or us k Rasool Sallalla... k bataey hoey tareeqon per na chal ker. bulkey dosron k tareeqon ko apni life me apna ker apni naqis aqal ki wajase parshaniyaan paalta hey.

kuch pareshaniyaan aisi b hoti hen jo Allaah pak apne khaas bandu ko azmata hey un k darjaat mazeed boland kerne k liye or imaan pukhta kerne k liye. is baat ka hamey is tarah pata chalta hey k jab kisi per aati hein tu wo Allaah ki taraf mutawajjo hojata hey means Allaah se hal kerwane me or Astaghfaar me lagjata hey.

0r kuch Pareshaniyaan aisi b hoti hen jo Allaah k azab ki sorat me ati hen... insan Allaah ki taraf jane k bajaey mazeed ghalat raste per chala jata hey.


Allaah pak mujh sameth hum sub ko sahi smjh or sahi yaqeen k sath zindagi guzarne wala banaden wid aafiat aameen..



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Ameen
 

minaahil

Queen of dreams
Super Star
Ws...
Nice one...

mere Nazdeek pareshaniyun me aksaryat amal dakhal insan ka khud b hota hey...
Jis me sub sey bara reason Allaah or us k Rasool Sallalla... k bataey hoey tareeqon per na chal ker. bulkey dosron k tareeqon ko apni life me apna ker apni naqis aqal ki wajase parshaniyaan paalta hey.

kuch pareshaniyaan aisi b hoti hen jo Allaah pak apne khaas bandu ko azmata hey un k darjaat mazeed boland kerne k liye or imaan pukhta kerne k liye. is baat ka hamey is tarah pata chalta hey k jab kisi per aati hein tu wo Allaah ki taraf mutawajjo hojata hey means Allaah se hal kerwane me or Astaghfaar me lagjata hey.

0r kuch Pareshaniyaan aisi b hoti hen jo Allaah k azab ki sorat me ati hen... insan Allaah ki taraf jane k bajaey mazeed ghalat raste per chala jata hey.


Allaah pak mujh sameth hum sub ko sahi smjh or sahi yaqeen k sath zindagi guzarne wala banaden wid aafiat aameen..



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@Cyra @Kavi @rooja @Aaidah @BeautyRose @Gaggan @hasandawar @AnadiL @Prince-Farry
@Hasii @Bird-Of-Paradise @Besharam @shzd @hinakhan0 @zehar @bilal_ishaq_786
@Belahadi @Manahi007 @BeautyRose @ujalaa @*Sonu* @Guriyaa_Ranee @illusionist
@sonu-unique @shahijutt @ujalaa @Layla @Fantasy @Babar-Azam @AM_ @Princess_Nisa
@Shanzykhan @sweet bhoot @NXXXS @IceCream @zahra1234 @AnadiL @Basitkikhushi
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@Hudx @Stunning_beauty @Zia_Hayderi @Fadiii @Aqsh_Arch @St0rm @Museebat @Zunaira_Gul
Men ap ki sari baton se agree krti hon beshak deen se doori ki wjaah se insaan khen ka nhi rehta.


Lekin Jo preshaniyan humen kisi ki wjaha se brdasht krna prti hen un ka kya jhuktay jhuktay qamar toot jaati hai relationship wfa se nibhatay nibatay umer guzar jaaye or bdlay men kirdaar par koi keechar uchalay ghar se bey ghr kar day bghair kisi wjaah se insaan ko pagal kar day un preshaniyon k baray men ap kya kahen gay?
 

Armaghankhan

Likhy Nhi Ja Sakty Dukhi Dil K Afsaany
Super Star
Men ap ki sari baton se agree krti hon beshak deen se doori ki wjaah se insaan khen ka nhi rehta.


Lekin Jo preshaniyan humen kisi ki wjaha se brdasht krna prti hen un ka kya jhuktay jhuktay qamar toot jaati hai relationship wfa se nibhatay nibatay umer guzar jaaye or bdlay men kirdaar par koi keechar uchalay ghar se bey ghr kar day bghair kisi wjaah se insaan ko pagal kar day un preshaniyon k baray men ap kya kahen gay?
bilkul sahi kaha ap ny
 

Shiraz-Khan

Super Magic Jori
Super Moderator
Men ap ki sari baton se agree krti hon beshak deen se doori ki wjaah se insaan khen ka nhi rehta.


Lekin Jo preshaniyan humen kisi ki wjaha se brdasht krna prti hen un ka kya jhuktay jhuktay qamar toot jaati hai relationship wfa se nibhatay nibatay umer guzar jaaye or bdlay men kirdaar par koi keechar uchalay ghar se bey ghr kar day bghair kisi wjaah se insaan ko pagal kar day un preshaniyon k baray men ap kya kahen gay?
jo pareshan ker raha hey us k liye khatre ki baat hey... q k mene kafi dafa note kia hey k Allaah pak halal or haram me pir b choht dedete hen.. per jahan insani haqoq k na haq parakhchey oraey jarahe hote hen us per Allaah pak dunya hi me tabahi start kerdete hein. shart ye hey k jis k sath ker raha hey wo bilkul beyqasor ho.. maazi me b or haal me b... us k sath aisi Allaah ki madad aati k aap soch b nae sakte... baki aisay b log hote hein jo itna na haq sehne k baad b sabar se kaam leyte hein or Allaah se rojo rakhte hein.. tu Allaah pak ik na ik din un ki jaan chora dete hein or ajar alag milta hey...
dekhen yahan wae baat agae aazmane wali...
 

minaahil

Queen of dreams
Super Star
jo pareshan ker raha hey us k liye khatre ki baat hey... q k mene kafi dafa note kia hey k Allaah pak halal or haram me pir b choht dedete hen.. per jahan insani haqoq k na haq parakhchey oraey jarahe hote hen us per Allaah pak dunya hi me tabahi start kerdete hein. shart ye hey k jis k sath ker raha hey wo bilkul beyqasor ho.. maazi me b or haal me b... us k sath aisi Allaah ki madad aati k aap soch b nae sakte... baki aisay b log hote hein jo itna na haq sehne k baad b sabar se kaam leyte hein or Allaah se rojo rakhte hein.. tu Allaah pak ik na ik din un ki jaan chora dete hein or ajar alag milta hey...
dekhen yahan wae baat agae aazmane wali...
Allah kray aisa hi ho .
Mera rub intqaam lay or woh behtr faisla krnay wala hai
 
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