.why She Won't Wear Hijab?

[AnadiL]

agree with u br0 ..the big problem z
"islam se doori "
agar parents religious hotai to wo apnai bacho ko islam sekaatai in par amal paira honai ki talqeen kartai but but u knw ............
dramas ,movies ,fashion ,attraction .....

U cant Say K Sirf ParenTs responsible hoTe hain bacho ko sahi Raah Pe Bulane k lie .
Its About '' Internal Will '' too
mere Khud k Class mates ko Dekhen To pata ni chalta either they are muslim or noT..but Unke Parents Extremly Baparda!!

 

[Syeda-Hilya]

ALLAH says love me follow me i will kept the whole world in ur feet now ??

Lol Am not arguing nor am I saying its wrong I wear hijab myself abroad ... I just listed the reasons why girls have to go through this conflict ... And trust me I have seen many especially abroad there are many girls who change .. some in a good way some in a bad way .. but its not good to push them coz then they are too too forced to think about hijab in a bad way .. u tell them once .. they don't want to so stop.. don't push them .. it will get more and more hard for them

 

[Hoorain]

Zabardast sharing
Freedom ka basic concept jb samaj ayega to for sure apni dignity aur value b samjh aayegi females ko...jahan tak acha dikhne ki baat hy to wo kahi mana nhi females ko..limit sirf mehram rishton specially husband tk ki hy ..cauz females ghair logo k liye entertainment channel nhi hain..


Let me share an experience ..my younger sister went for a job interview in ACE news office...she wears abaya and veil..when interview ended the interviewer said it was a nice experience interviewing such a straightforwardgirl like u but will u continue to wear hijab after getting job? She said yes ...and they did not employee her..my friend went to the same office for interview and they said. "Sorry we cant hire u if u'll continue wearing hijab" ye haal hain islamic country may jobs standards ka...talent se ziada fashion appeal krta

 

[zaryaab]

U cant Say K Sirf ParenTs responsible hoTe hain bacho ko sahi Raah Pe Bulane k lie .
Its About '' Internal Will '' too
mere Khud k Class mates ko Dekhen To pata ni chalta either they are muslim or noT..but Unke Parents Extremly Baparda!!

parents he hai 95 % ghalti tarbiyaat ki hai .. agar khud ba parda hai to unki tarbiyaat mai koe kami hoge ..

 

[zaryaab]

Zabardast sharing
Freedom ka basic concept jb samaj ayega to for sure apni dignity aur value b samjh aayegi females ko...jahan tak acha dikhne ki baat hy to wo kahi mana nhi females ko..limit sirf mehram rishton specially husband tk ki hy ..cauz females ghair logo k liye entertainment channel nhi hain..


Let me share an experience ..my younger sister went for a job interview in ACE news office...she wears abaya and veil..when interview ended the interviewer said it was a nice experience interviewing such a straightforwardgirl like u but will u continue to wear hijab after getting job? She said yes ...and they did not employee her..my friend went to the same office for interview and they said. "Sorry we cant hire u if u'll continue wearing hijab" ye haal hain islamic country may jobs standards ka...talent se ziada fashion appeal krta

yea they want to attact the viewers by looks not by talent

 

[Hoorain]

@whiteros @amazingcreator @Rubi @Sw33t AnG3L @Hira_Khan @Seap @Manxil @Pari

 

[Hoorain]

yea they want to attact the viewers by looks not by talent

Aur is se ziada afsos ki baat. Kia hogi..double standards chalte hmare haan

 

[zaryaab]

Lol Am not arguing nor am I saying its wrong I wear hijab myself abroad ... I just listed the reasons why girls have to go through this conflict ... And trust me I have seen many especially abroad there are many girls who change .. some in a good way some in a bad way .. but its not good to push them coz then they are too too forced to think about hijab in a bad way .. u tell them once .. they don't want to so stop.. don't push them .. it will get more and more hard for them

yea its true nd i think its germany where men for beard and women for hijab file for penalty ..

 

[zaryaab]

Aur is se ziada afsos ki baat. Kia hogi..double standards chalte hmare haan

i knw

 

[Aks_]

A conversation for Muslim sisters.

"I'm so tired."

"Tired of what?"

"Of all these people judging me."

"Who judged you?"

"Like that woman, every time I sit with her, she tells me to wear hijab."

"Oh, hijab and music! The mother of all topics!"

"Yeah! I listen to music without hijab…haha!"

"Maybe she was just giving you advice."

"I don't need her advice. I know my religion. Can`t she mind her own
business?"

"Maybe you misunderstood. She was just being nice."

"Keeping out of my business, that would be nice..."

"But it's her duty to encourage you do to good."

"Trust me. That was no encouragement. And what do you mean `good` ?"

"Well, wearing hijab, that would be a good thing to do."

"Says who?"

"It's in the Qur'an, isn't it?"

"Yes. She did quote me something."

"She said Surah Nur, and other places of the Qur'an."

"Yes, but it's not a big sin anyway. Helping people and praying is more
important."

"True. But big things start with small things."

"That's a good point, but what you wear is not important. What's important
is to have a good healthy heart."

"What you wear is not important?"

"That's what I said."

"Then why do you spend an hour every morning fixing up?"

"What do you mean?"

"You spend money on cosmetics, not to mention all the time you spend on
fixing your hair and low-carb dieting."

"So?"

"So, your appearance IS important."

"No. I said wearing hijab is not an important thing in religion."

"If it's not an important thing in religion, why is it mentioned in the Holy
Qur'an?"

"You know I can't follow all that's in Qur'an."

"You mean God tells you something to do, you disobey and then it's OK?"

"Yes. God is forgiving."

"God is forgiving to those who repent and do not repeat their mistakes."

"Says who?"

"Says the same book that tells you to cover."

"But I don't like hijab, it limits my freedom."

"But the lotions, lipsticks, mascara and other cosmetics set you free?!
What`s your definition of freedom anyway?"

"Freedom is in doing whatever you like to do."

"No. Freedom is in doing the right thing, not in doing whatever we wish to do."

"Look! I've seen so many people who don't wear hijab and are nice people, and so many who wear hijab and are bad people."

"So what? There are people who are nice to you but are alcoholic. Should we all be alcoholics? You made a stupid point."

"I don't want to be an extremist or a fanatic. I'm OK the way I am without hijab."

"Then you are a secular fanatic. An extremist in disobeying God."

"You don't get it, if I wear hijab, who would marry me?!"

"So all these people with hijab never get married?!"

"Okay! What if I get married and my husband doesn't like it? And wants me to remove it?"

"What if your husband wants you to go out with him on a bank robbery?!"

"That's irrelevant, bank robbery is a crime."

"Disobeying your Creator is not a crime?"

"But then who would hire me?"

"A company that respects people for who they are."

"Not after 9-11"

"Yes. After 9-11. Don't you know about Hanan who just got into med school?
And the other one, what was her name, the girl who always wore a white hijab…ummm…"

"Yasmeen?"

"Yes. Yasmeen. She just finished her MBA and is now interning for GE."

"Why do you reduce religion to a piece of cloth anyway?"

"Why do you reduce womanhood to high heals and lipstick colors?"

"You didn't answer my question."

"In fact, I did. Hijab is not just a piece of cloth. It is obeying God in a difficult environment. It is courage, faith in action, and true womanhood.
But your short sleeves, tight pants…"

"That's called `fashion`, you live in a cave or
something? First of all, hijab was founded by men who wanted to control
women."

"Really? I did not know men could control women by hijab."

"Yes. That's what it is."

"What about the women who fight their husbands to wear hijab? And women in France who are forced to remove their hijab by men? What do you say about that?"

"Well, that's different."

"What difference? The woman who asked you to wear hijab…she was a woman, right?"

"Right, but…"

"But fashions that are designed and promoted by male-dominated corporations, set you free? Men have no control on exposing women and using them as a commodity?! Give me a break!"

"Wait, let me finish, I was saying…"

"Saying what? You think that men control women by hijab?"

"Yes."

"Specifically how?"

"By telling women how and what to wear, dummy!"

"Doesn't TV, magazines and movies tell you what to wear, and how to be `attractive'?"

"Of course, it's fashion."

"Isn't that control? Pressuring you to wear what they want you to wear?"

[Silence]

"Not just controlling you, but also controlling the market."

"What do you mean?"

"I mean, you are told to look skinny and anorexic like that woman on the cover of the magazine, by men who design those magazines and sell those products."

"I don't get it. What does hijab have to do with products."

"It has everything to do with that. Don't you see? Hijab is a threat to consumerism, women who spend billions of dollars to look skinny and live by standards of fashion designed by men…and then here is Islam, saying trash all that nonsense and focus on your soul, not on your looks, and do not worry what men think of your looks."

"Like I don't have to buy hijab? Isn't hijab a product?"

"Yes, it is. It is a product that sets you free from male-dominated consumerism."

"Stop lecturing me! I WILL NOT WEAR HIJAB!
It is awkward, outdated, and totally not suitable for this society ... Moreover, I am only 20 and too young to wear hijab!"

"Fine. Say that to your Lord, when you face Him on Judgment Day."

"Fine."

"Fine."

[Silence]

"Shut up and I don't want to hear more about hijab niqab schmijab Punjab!"

[Silence]

She stared at the mirror, tired of arguing with herself all this time.

Successful enough, she managed to shut the voices in her head, with her own opinions triumphant in victory on the matter, and a final modern decision accepted by the society - but rejected by the Faith:

"Yes!" - to curls on the hair - "No!" - to hijab!

"And he (/she) is indeed a failure who corrupts it [the soul]!"
[Glorious Quran 91:10]

Subhana'Allah!!!

"Nay! You prefer the life of this world; While the hereafter is better and more lasting."
[Glorious Quran: 87:16-17]

"You are the best community (Ummah) raised up for (the benefit of) humanity; enjoining what is right and forbidding what is wrong and believing in Allah(God)."
[Glorious Quran: 3:110]

Know the difference between freedom and enslaving. May Allah SWT help us all. Ameen






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@Shiraz-Khan

mashaa Allah beautiful post thanks for sharing Allah bless you its mean alot

 

[Aks_]

parents he hai 95 % ghalti tarbiyaat ki hai .. agar khud ba parda hai to unki tarbiyaat mai koe kami hoge ..

no i dont think k is me parents ki koi mistak hy wo apna best hi karty hen Always kbi koi waliden apni olaad ka bura nhi chata aj kal brain wash karny k liye to midia kafi hy olad khud bigrti hy even har koi khud kharab hota hy koi tab tak hum sy kuch nhi karwa sakta jab tak hum khud na chahen

 

[soul_of_silence]

i wear haijab in uniii and any plce jahn bi me jati hun mjhy hijab krnaaa bht ashaa lagtaa hai and thnkss for sharing a beautiful posttt

 

[soul_of_silence]

A conversation for Muslim sisters.

"I'm so tired."

"Tired of what?"

"Of all these people judging me."

"Who judged you?"

"Like that woman, every time I sit with her, she tells me to wear hijab."

"Oh, hijab and music! The mother of all topics!"

"Yeah! I listen to music without hijab…haha!"

"Maybe she was just giving you advice."

"I don't need her advice. I know my religion. Can`t she mind her own
business?"

"Maybe you misunderstood. She was just being nice."

"Keeping out of my business, that would be nice..."

"But it's her duty to encourage you do to good."

"Trust me. That was no encouragement. And what do you mean `good` ?"

"Well, wearing hijab, that would be a good thing to do."

"Says who?"

"It's in the Qur'an, isn't it?"

"Yes. She did quote me something."

"She said Surah Nur, and other places of the Qur'an."

"Yes, but it's not a big sin anyway. Helping people and praying is more
important."

"True. But big things start with small things."

"That's a good point, but what you wear is not important. What's important
is to have a good healthy heart."

"What you wear is not important?"

"That's what I said."

"Then why do you spend an hour every morning fixing up?"

"What do you mean?"

"You spend money on cosmetics, not to mention all the time you spend on
fixing your hair and low-carb dieting."

"So?"

"So, your appearance IS important."

"No. I said wearing hijab is not an important thing in religion."

"If it's not an important thing in religion, why is it mentioned in the Holy
Qur'an?"

"You know I can't follow all that's in Qur'an."

"You mean God tells you something to do, you disobey and then it's OK?"

"Yes. God is forgiving."

"God is forgiving to those who repent and do not repeat their mistakes."

"Says who?"

"Says the same book that tells you to cover."

"But I don't like hijab, it limits my freedom."

"But the lotions, lipsticks, mascara and other cosmetics set you free?!
What`s your definition of freedom anyway?"

"Freedom is in doing whatever you like to do."

"No. Freedom is in doing the right thing, not in doing whatever we wish to do."

"Look! I've seen so many people who don't wear hijab and are nice people, and so many who wear hijab and are bad people."

"So what? There are people who are nice to you but are alcoholic. Should we all be alcoholics? You made a stupid point."

"I don't want to be an extremist or a fanatic. I'm OK the way I am without hijab."

"Then you are a secular fanatic. An extremist in disobeying God."

"You don't get it, if I wear hijab, who would marry me?!"

"So all these people with hijab never get married?!"

"Okay! What if I get married and my husband doesn't like it? And wants me to remove it?"

"What if your husband wants you to go out with him on a bank robbery?!"

"That's irrelevant, bank robbery is a crime."

"Disobeying your Creator is not a crime?"

"But then who would hire me?"

"A company that respects people for who they are."

"Not after 9-11"

"Yes. After 9-11. Don't you know about Hanan who just got into med school?
And the other one, what was her name, the girl who always wore a white hijab…ummm…"

"Yasmeen?"

"Yes. Yasmeen. She just finished her MBA and is now interning for GE."

"Why do you reduce religion to a piece of cloth anyway?"

"Why do you reduce womanhood to high heals and lipstick colors?"

"You didn't answer my question."

"In fact, I did. Hijab is not just a piece of cloth. It is obeying God in a difficult environment. It is courage, faith in action, and true womanhood.
But your short sleeves, tight pants…"

"That's called `fashion`, you live in a cave or
something? First of all, hijab was founded by men who wanted to control
women."

"Really? I did not know men could control women by hijab."

"Yes. That's what it is."

"What about the women who fight their husbands to wear hijab? And women in France who are forced to remove their hijab by men? What do you say about that?"

"Well, that's different."

"What difference? The woman who asked you to wear hijab…she was a woman, right?"

"Right, but…"

"But fashions that are designed and promoted by male-dominated corporations, set you free? Men have no control on exposing women and using them as a commodity?! Give me a break!"

"Wait, let me finish, I was saying…"

"Saying what? You think that men control women by hijab?"

"Yes."

"Specifically how?"

"By telling women how and what to wear, dummy!"

"Doesn't TV, magazines and movies tell you what to wear, and how to be `attractive'?"

"Of course, it's fashion."

"Isn't that control? Pressuring you to wear what they want you to wear?"

[Silence]

"Not just controlling you, but also controlling the market."

"What do you mean?"

"I mean, you are told to look skinny and anorexic like that woman on the cover of the magazine, by men who design those magazines and sell those products."

"I don't get it. What does hijab have to do with products."

"It has everything to do with that. Don't you see? Hijab is a threat to consumerism, women who spend billions of dollars to look skinny and live by standards of fashion designed by men…and then here is Islam, saying trash all that nonsense and focus on your soul, not on your looks, and do not worry what men think of your looks."

"Like I don't have to buy hijab? Isn't hijab a product?"

"Yes, it is. It is a product that sets you free from male-dominated consumerism."

"Stop lecturing me! I WILL NOT WEAR HIJAB!
It is awkward, outdated, and totally not suitable for this society ... Moreover, I am only 20 and too young to wear hijab!"

"Fine. Say that to your Lord, when you face Him on Judgment Day."

"Fine."

"Fine."

[Silence]

"Shut up and I don't want to hear more about hijab niqab schmijab Punjab!"

[Silence]

She stared at the mirror, tired of arguing with herself all this time.

Successful enough, she managed to shut the voices in her head, with her own opinions triumphant in victory on the matter, and a final modern decision accepted by the society - but rejected by the Faith:

"Yes!" - to curls on the hair - "No!" - to hijab!

"And he (/she) is indeed a failure who corrupts it [the soul]!"
[Glorious Quran 91:10]

Subhana'Allah!!!

"Nay! You prefer the life of this world; While the hereafter is better and more lasting."
[Glorious Quran: 87:16-17]

"You are the best community (Ummah) raised up for (the benefit of) humanity; enjoining what is right and forbidding what is wrong and believing in Allah(God)."
[Glorious Quran: 3:110]

Know the difference between freedom and enslaving. May Allah SWT help us all. Ameen






@Don @Pari @Hoorain @RedRose64 @Mahen @STAR24 @White orchid @Mystery @whiteros @namaal
@Abidi @Shizu @Iceage-TM @Toobi @i love sahabah @Prince-Farry @Babar-Azam @AM_ @Princess_Nisa
@NamaL @Fa!th @MSC @Armaghankhan @yoursks @thefire1 @nighatnaseem21 @Fanii @naazii
@Hira_Khan @MIS_MaHa @junaid_ak47 @Guriya_Rani @Azeyy @Gul-e-lala @maryamtaqdeesmo
@shzd @p3arl @Fantasy @Atif-adi @Lost Passenger @marzish @Afrasyyab @Pakhtoon @saharkhan
@Rubi @*fajar* @Tariq Saeed @Mas00m-DeVil @Wafa_Khan @amazingcreator @marib @Zaryaab
@S_ChiragH @Binte_Hawwa @sweet_c_kuri @sabha_khan40 @Masoom_girl @hariya @Sw33t AnG3L
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@Rahath @Shireen @zonii @Noor_Afridi @sweet bhoot @Lightman @Leeza_Rose @Noorjee @hafaz @Miss_Tittli
@Bela @LuViSh @aribak @BabyDoll @Silent_tear_hurt @gulfishan @Manxil @Raat ki Rani @candy @Asma_tufail
@errorsss @raaz the secret @diya. @isma33 @hashmi_jan @smarty_dollie @Era_Emaan @AshirFrhan @aira_roy
@saimaaaaaaa @Nighaat @crystal_eyez @Mantasha_Zawaar @zaatzarra @reality @illusionist @DesiGirl @huny
@Hudx @StunninG_BeauTy @Zia_Hayderi @Fadiii @minaahil @UbedThaheem @Aqsh_Arch @HuriYa
@Shiraz-Khan

yeh cnverstin bht pehly share ki thi meeney bi
http://www.tafreehmella.com/threads/please-read-this-abt-hijab-is-necessry-fr-womens.250494/

 

[soul_of_silence]

nice sharig ..

yeh meny bi share ki thi bht pehlyy

 

[Fanii]

yeh meny bi share ki thi bht pehlyy

asha mujhe tag nhi mila uska to ....

 

[soul_of_silence]

asha mujhe tag nhi mila uska to ....

http://www.tafreehmella.com/threads/please-read-this-abt-hijab-is-necessry-fr-womens.250494/
nai tum ne cmnt kiya tha yrrr

 

[Fanii]

http://www.tafreehmella.com/threads/please-read-this-abt-hijab-is-necessry-fr-womens.250494/
nai tum ne cmnt kiya tha yrrr

asha phir bhool gaya hnga

 

[soul_of_silence]

asha phir bhool gaya hnga

hehehe tum bhollty bht hooo

 

[Fanii]

hehehe tum bhollty bht hooo

han badaam nhi khata na

 

[soul_of_silence]

han badaam nhi khata na

hahah me to kahti hunnn