what is the difference between LOVE and CRUSH

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wahhhhhhhhh..
kya dialogue mara hai ADI..:p
LOLZZZZZZZZZZ
main agree nhi krti u k is nukta nazr se
lols actully anu ye ap logun ka nazariye hai,k shadi k bad hi pyar karenge, cuz ap logun ne khud ko maksos waqt k lie us raste per dekhne se roka hua hai, n ap log shadi k bad hi love kerna chahte hain... but belive me, jis din love hoga na us din ap samjh jaogi k ye rules nai dekhta bus hojata hai....
n majority k log pori dunia me wohi kehte hain jo me keh raha hun :)
 

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huh
apne view ko sahi sabit karne k lie aap mere baat ko jhoota sabit na kare....
mein ne apne reply mei bhi kaha hai
k agar kisi se real love ho toh usi ko phr life partner banana chahiye....
Love before marriage bhi ho sakta hai....
After marriage love hi sincere n worthy hai....
shadi se pahly love ka toh koi trust nahi kar sakta
koun kab kaha saath chor de.../:)

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lols akhir maan gai na meri baat? :p
k love shadi se [ehle bhi ho skat hai...

me bhi kab se yehi keh raha tha but u to u ho... :|
mene kaha love kabhi bhi hoskata hai, n love k bad koi bhi shaid ka hi sochta hai,jese u ne kaha shadi kerni chaiye to kaun diagree ker raha hai,

baat itni hai k feelings hogai na shadi se pehle? kuch kuch hogaya na? matlab love start hogaya, yehi me bhi keh raha tha ...

mene kab kaha k sahdi k bad love nai hota? mene to ye kaha ak shadi se pehle bhi hoskata hai... ab samjhi k nai? :|
 

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bilkul me ko pehle true love hua, wo to mila nai, n now im again in love ( secret hai ):p
tobaaaaaaaa...again..........:eek:ye to ajeeb hi philosophy hai..
tu nhi or sahi or nhi or sahi...lolzzzzzzzzz:))

yep this is true, if u dont know read my real love story i wrote on TM... its not like bina matlab k chor dia love ko,there r resons,n in my case bhi tha she was not sincere with me...but mera love? wo to sucha tha na us ka example meri family se pocho jinhun ne mujhe behoshi k alam me hospital punchaya, us pal se pocho jab me maut or zindagi k bich hospital me para tha...ye koi mazak nai tha na crush tha... n ye bhi such hai k wo ek tarfa love tha jo mene kia tha wo bhi awafa nibhati to shadi hi humara maksad tha... but after all this incident i got new life n me shuru me bht duur raha girls se, n then i got freinds on TM, n again i started my life. n i got feelings or some one again, me use berhne nai deta cuz i dont want to make a scene again... n all that i figure out in whole story of my life k han love dobara ho sakta hai...

per me ko is bar koi umeed nai k hum mile ya na mile, jo waqt sath guzar jae hasi khushi utna hi bht hai zindagi guzarne k lie :)
wahhhhhhhhhh...to pichli muhabat ka kya huva ADI...???:p..BHOOL GYI..
nope dhoka or pyar insan kabhi nai bholta, n mujeh ye dono hi ek hi larki se mila n me ko humesha wo yaad rahega...


n to is tarha mene wo ek hi true love wali theory fake sabit kerdi...mene hi nai dunia me zada ter logo ne bhi...
han jo u jese nam nihad luv guru hote hain na un k nazriyat ese hote hain.
im not surprise by your reply, ap na mano to na sahi, but fact hai...

n let me tell u one thing
k love ka maksad n manzil shadi hi hai, n jo love manzil tak na ponche due to some circumstances wo love love nai hota kya??
jin logo ko sachi me muhabbat hoti hai na woh is tarha ki batain nhi krte..ye sirf crush hi hai Adi sahib..

ap ka ye reply is bat ka saboot hai k apko love or crush me diffrences nai pata, may be love ka naam ap ne suna hoga,
but humne kia hai love...

ye to bus wo log kehte hain jinhun ne kya hi nai hoga love :)
doob ker dekhoge to gehrai ka andaza hoga tume,
sahilo per khare reh ker samnder ki gehrai kya napte ho dost ;)
wahhhhhhh..
ap to shayer ho gye.....:-bd
ap ko b kya pata muhabbat ki gehrayi ka..abi atk to ap crush ko explain kr rhe the..:p


jo insan khud waqt se seekh chuka ho wohi samjh sakta hai
ye batein mene kisi kitab me nai parhi,
ye bate mene mehsoos ki meri apni life me...
 
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pehle meri bat dekhe parhe theek se samjhe then kahein kuch bhi...

im not telling k time pas love hota hai,
of course time pas is related to crush n all that stuff.

love is different,

for example mera ye Q hai ap log se,ye batien -
k ager ek larka ager larki se muhbat kerta hai bht be inteha, n wo ye samjhta hai k larki bhi use utna hi chahti hai, but wo larki us se dhoka de rahi hai, n finaly jab us larke ko pata chalta ahi to wo use chor deta hai n wo sucide,but stil bach jata hai some how... n then halka halka ker k wo zindagi dobara jeena shuru kerta hai,is doran uski zindaig me ek new larki ajae, n wo uski zindagi khobsurat banade itni k use us se muhabbat hojae, to in this case kya kahenge ap log??

kya wo larka time pass ker raha hai? kya ye uska crush hia? kya use jeene ka koi haq nai n wo zindagi me khushi bhol jae??
kya use dobara love kerne ka haq nai???

ager nai to give me one solid reason,
n ager hai to agree with me k love dobara bhi hosakta hai... !!!
 
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kisi ne sach kaha hia k muhabbat muhabbat hoti hai koi race nai, k ek bar har gae to zindagi k race har gae,
muhabbat sirf pane ka nam nai hai, kya fark para ager kisi ko dhoka mila us ki muhabbat tos achi thi? us ne to try kia na k shadi hojae n humesha k lie ek hojaein...n ager kismat ne usko esa dhoka dia to kya wo jeena bhol jae?

shadi kya hai?
sirf kobol hai teen dafa bolne se teen char rasme kerne se nikah nai hojata,
dil se dil bhi milna chiaye...
 
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off course me ye nai kahugna k pehle shadi nai karo pehle love karo phir karo shadi... it depends shadi k bad bhi love ho sakta hai, love just need some specific time n off course mahool bane to love hojata hai, ap k gher me freindly sa mahool rahe apki shadi k bad n apki n apki wife k bich understanding hone lage, to off course love will come to u ... n is se achi or kya bat hogi k apni wife se hi love hojae?

but in some case larke (akser) shadi to kerlete hain per wife ko love nai kerte cuz ya to wo pehle hi kisi or me intrested hote ahin n gher walu k lie shadi kerlete hain...is tarha se do do life nai bht c life kharab hoti hain, i would say avoid this, jab lage k ap kisi ko wife ki position dene k laik ho then hi step barhao, in my case me bhi wohi karunga...
 
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Ado app dhoka kahany k baad kjafi samjhdaar ho gaye hay aur mohabbat k mafhoom k sahe trekay say bhi samjh gaye hay

aur ma nay app k sara article para aur is nateeajay per phucha hoon k Mohabbat ksi ku pa lenay ka naam nahi aur na hi woh app k sath shadi ker k aik ho jaye tu app pani mohabbat pa letay hay

Mohabbat aik aisa jazaba hay jis k liye app jis say mohabbat kertay hay us k liye dil say Du'a' nikalti hay chaya woh app k pass ho yeah app say kosoo door

aur jaha tuk app nay shadi ki baat ki shadi hoe nikah howa aur dono aik ho gaye yeah mohabbat nahi bul k dono ka khayalat aur dil bhi aik dosry say milna xaroori hay warana life bore lugti hay aur aik piyasay sehara ki tarah hamesha pani ku tarsti rehti hay
 
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Ado app dhoka kahany k baad kjafi samjhdaar ho gaye hay aur mohabbat k mafhoom k sahe trekay say bhi samjh gaye hay

aur ma nay app k sara article para aur is nateeajay per phucha hoon k Mohabbat ksi ku pa lenay ka naam nahi aur na hi woh app k sath shadi ker k aik ho jaye tu app pani mohabbat pa letay hay

Mohabbat aik aisa jazaba hay jis k liye app jis say mohabbat kertay hay us k liye dil say Du'a' nikalti hay chaya woh app k pass ho yeah app say kosoo door

aur jaha tuk app nay shadi ki baat ki shadi hoe nikah howa aur dono aik ho gaye yeah mohabbat nahi bul k dono ka khayalat aur dil bhi aik dosry say milna xaroori hay warana life bore lugti hay aur aik piyasay sehara ki tarah hamesha pani ku tarsti rehti hay
hmm yehi to hassu bhai such kaha na mene?
apne dekha hoga me waha hi bare bare zada reply kertrta hun jis mamle me logu ki madad ker sakte hun , n in this case yes i want to help those broken hearts jo ye sochte hain k ab pyar me dhoka mila to zindagi zindagi nai hai cuz pyar ek bar hota hia n all that fairy tales, but asal me zindagi bht khobsurat hai,ap apne dil k darwaze khol ker dekho ek rasta Allah ne band kia to 100 or raste kholdeta hai...
 

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yeap rite ado

Sitron say agay jahan aur bhi hay
abhi Ishaq k uimtehaa aur bhi hay

zindagi sirf aik poit per ruk nahi jati, bul asala zinndagi he utar chahro a, crust & trough, Maddo Jazzar ka naam hay jis tarah samnader may khabhi tugyani aa jati aur aur khabhi tehrao tu zindagi bhi bikul isi arah hay khabai is may bohat si khusiyan hay aur kahi gham chupay hay
 
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adi ap jo marzi kaho..
Ma ap ki kisi bat se agree nhi krti..
Mere pas apki is philosophy k radd krne k lye kafi batain hain
lekin
behas ka koi faida nhi..kyon k ap ne manna to hai nhi..
Leave it..
 
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at the moment All i wana say is Beautiful siggiiiiiii....Love it...:-bd
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lols thanx dear...actully sana u know its just like im cazy about junid bhai song ye shaam phir nai aegi, n all that lovly 90s songs by vital sign...wohi song sun sun ker jo bhi mind me ek vision ban jata hai na use hi mene sigi me bayan kerne k i koshish ki hai thnx for liking :)
 
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adi ap jo marzi kaho..
Ma ap ki kisi bat se agree nhi krti..
Mere pas apki is philosophy k radd krne k lye kafi batain hain
lekin
behas ka koi faida nhi..kyon k ap ne manna to hai nhi..
Leave it..
anu jee is me baat behs ki kaha se agai?
its just like that, k aap ko kuch or sahi lagta hai mujhe kuch or sahi lagta hai (apne nazariye se ya jo meri zindagi me hua us se mujhe lagta hai wo sahi hai...)

love ki to itni types hain k ager in ki gehraio me jaenge to zindagi kam lagegi.

love kabhi to junoon ki tarha mehboob ko pane ka junnon rakhta hai, kabhi khamosh reh ker bas apne mehboob ki khusi me khush rehta hai,
kabhi is love me itna bharosa dekha k ankh dekhi bat bhi jhoti lagi,or kabhi itni jalan k ager apka mehboob kisi or se bat bhikare to gawara na ho dil ko...

its all love...aap bhi sahi ho me bhi,hum dono hi apni jaga sahi hain...
chalein ab ap smile karein... :)

n topic ki taraf aate hue bataien,
k apka chilhood crush kaun tha :D
me ka chilhood crush pakistani pop queen the beautiful NAZiA HASSAN thi :(
when i was just 3 yrs n i used to say k mama me ko nazia se shadi kerni hai,aj bhi jab mom me ko kehti hain ye bat to bht hasi ati hai k kese din hunge wo :)
 
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