Announcement New Rule For The Forum

[-Mahi-]

Assalam o Alykum TM

Last koch dayz main dekha ja raha ha k mazak he mazak main kafi members TM pay shadiaan karwa rahay hain or phir isi type ki gossip ko TM k kafi sections and Chatbox may bhi karte howay dekhai day rahay hain.. So aisay tamam members k lie aik Important announcement ha k TM aik family forum ha jahan is type ki koi b fazool baat bardasht nai ki jaygi.. or agar is announcement k baad aisi waisi koi b baat kahi b dekhai de to us member k khilaaf strict action lia jayga..

Best Regards

Appreciated ........................................

 

[SHB_Bhaiya]

puraney TM aur aaj ke TM mai bohat faraq hai ..... Aaj ka TM fun se kum aur critical issue per discussion kerney waloun ka forum zyada ho gaya hai... forum ke lea best decision hai keh next time koi fun activity kerney se pehley bohat baar sochey ga ... aur forum to hota discussion ke lea jahan pe log apna knowledge share karen aur aik dosrey ko behas mai neecha dikhayen thats it...

 

[Hans_Mukh]

what i think is k mene kaafi arse bad TM per thora traffic dekha tha. feel hua like TM k old days wapis agae.
me ye samjhta hun is se kai sare members jo speacialy us thread me participate ker rahe they un ki dil azari hogi. n un me kai sare new members hain.

mujeh rules per koi doubt nai.
if i would feel free to live with it i will. but in future ager koi esa rule banaya gaya jo mujhe bother karega.ya jis k sath compromise nai ho sakega to i would quite
but wont point on that rule.

mujhe bas dar ye hai k we r going towards extremism on TM day by day. jo me kuch mahino se mesus ker raha hun.any ways...

Same Things I hv noticed from several months aur aisy rule per khassa karak aitraaz hy jaha new members aur old members ekkhytty ho ker bahttay hy waha kisi aik bunday k kehnay per new rule apply ker diya jata hy aur us thread ku close ker diya jata hy jo traffic create kernay k baes hota hy

jis k nateeja yeah hota hy k un ma sy kaye member ki dil azaari hoti hy aur wo forum chore ker chalay jatay hy

 

[Abid Mahmood]

Meray net main masla ha so theek se posting nahi ho rahi, ma bad main aapko proper jawab doon ga @Hans_Mukh ,haan itna kahoon ga k agar 2 banday raza mandi se ghalat kam kar rahay hon to uss kam ko hum theek nahi keh saktay,

 

[Hans_Mukh]

One word . Azadai sabko hai jo chahai karai per razamandi sai site isliyai banai jati hai kai koi asakai mazai kar sakai khush rehsakai apni life mai probs mai ho toh un probs ko sahi karsakai share karsakai . jaha bandishai ho woh jagah jagah nahi hoti .. agar mai honga toh mai kabhhi pabandi nahi lagaoga In my site ya ksi bhi site per staff hua agar .. per limits bhi zaroori hai limits bhi rakhni chahiyai hai members ko jaisai kai abusing na karai battamizi na karai mazaak tab band kardai jab banda ya bandi nahi chahta hai ... aur spamming na karai sabsai bari bat hai yeh sab agar yeh sab follow karsaktai ho aur yeh sab rules mai hai aur yeh sab T.m mai hai jaisai pehlai tha then i will say yeh place sabsai best hai aur agai bhi rahaigi Good luck

I Totally agree with u @Messi[DOUBLEPOST=1352651669][/DOUBLEPOST]

Meray net main masla ha so theek se posting nahi ho rahi, ma bad main aapko proper jawab doon ga @Hans_Mukh ,haan itna kahoon ga k agar 2 banday raza mandi se ghalat kam kar rahay hon to uss kam ko hum theek nahi keh saktay,

yehi baat @Abidi brhtr ma nay kahi hy ager wo ikhlaqiyaat say hut ker guftagu ker rahay tu app ku un ku wahi rokana chahaiye tha yeah admin ku wo post quote ker k inform kerna chaiye tha, kiya app is thread k w8 ker rahay thay k aisa thread post ho aur app apnay dil bharas waha nikalty ager yeah thread na lugta tu app kiya kertay ?????

ma app ku aik Hadees say wazah kerta hoo mujhey theek say yaad nahi but us k mafhoom yeah hy k ager app kahi koe galt kaam hota dhaikay tu usay pehlay roknay ki kosish karay aur zuban say roknay ki taqat nahi raktay tu qlam say rokay aur ager qalam sy be nahi ker saktay tu dil ma us k liye us kaam ku rokany k liye Dua'a karay

 

[cutepoison]

OOoopps strange thing k
TM Marriage Beauro

ye thread to start hi @RedRose64 ne kiya tha ....

 

[RedRose64]

OOoopps strange thing k
TM Marriage Beauro

ye thread to start hi @RedRose64 ne kiya tha ....

han per main ne he aj ye thread khud CLOSE b kia ha..

 

[cutepoison]

han per main ne he aj ye thread khud CLOSE b kia ha..

but itne arse baad q aap ko apni ghalti ka ehsaas hoa??

 

[RedRose64]

ma app ku aik Hadees say wazah kerta hoo mujhey theek say yaad nahi but us k mafhoom yeah hy k ager app kahi koe galt kaam hota dhaikay tu usay pehlay roknay ki kosish karay aur zuban say roknay ki taqat nahi raktay tu qlam say rokay aur ager qalam sy be nahi ker saktay tu dil ma us k liye us kaam ku rokany k liye Dua'a karay

bro Hadees ko bech main mat layein coz hadees to is type ki enjoyment hergiz allow nai karti

 

[Hans_Mukh]

bro Hadees ko bech main mat layein coz hadees to is type ki enjoyment hergiz allow nai karti

ma nay un ku samjhany ki kosish ki hy jo keh rahay k cb ma do member gair muhuzzbana guftagu ker rahy thay app poora reply xara ghoor say read karay tu app ku samjh aa jaye gi k ma kiya kehna cha raha hoo

 

[~Bahaar~]

Assalam o Alykum TM

Last koch dayz main dekha ja raha ha k mazak he mazak main kafi members TM pay shadiaan karwa rahay hain or phir isi type ki gossip ko TM k kafi sections and Chatbox may bhi karte howay dekhai day rahay hain.. So aisay tamam members k lie aik Important announcement ha k TM aik family forum ha jahan is type ki koi b fazool baat bardasht nai ki jaygi.. or agar is announcement k baad aisi waisi koi b baat kahi b dekhai de to us member k khilaaf strict action lia jayga..

Best Regards

Waliekum AsSalam....
Ye last kuch Days ki bat nahi last few yrs ka kahsakte hain..
magar shayed khayal apko abb aya ahi..''TM Marriage Beauru'' kisne start kiya tha TM p..?
Tab bhi eteraaz hua tha magar apne khud isko as a fun ka darja diya tha...Abb jabkay TM k kasheeda aur ghutanzada mahole ko thora sa khubsurat banane k liye ya ye kehlen k halki phulki tafree k liye phir se shadi section activate hua hai aur jabkay do bandon ki razamandi se yahan kuch hallagulla hota ahi toh apko is stage p kyunkar Eteraaz hua hai?
Aaap acchi tarha jaanti ho na k TM p kistarha ka mahole create kiya gaya aur isi wajhe se na srf TM k members ki dilazaari hui balkay bht sare members ne ana hi band kardiya..
Jahan tak entertainment k dusre sections ki bat hai to har jaga hi aisa mahole banega jahan sara TM ekhatta hone k bajaye grpbandiyon me bategaa...
Kisi Ek banday k liye sarae TM ki tafreh nahi roki jasakti hai...Jo is fun ka hissa na banna chahe na bane lekin kisi ki khushi me khush hokar enjoy to kiya jasakta hai..aur jahan tak rule ki baat hai wo rules to Family forum hi ki tarha rahenge,koi an rule torega aur na hi kisi ki dilazaari karega..

 

[Abid Mahmood]

I Totally agree with u @Messi[DOUBLEPOST=1352651669][/DOUBLEPOST]


yehi baat @Abidi brhtr ma nay kahi hy ager wo ikhlaqiyaat say hut ker guftagu ker rahay tu app ku un ku wahi rokana chahaiye tha yeah admin ku wo post quote ker k inform kerna chaiye tha, kiya app is thread k w8 ker rahay thay k aisa thread post ho aur app apnay dil bharas waha nikalty ager yeah thread na lugta tu app kiya kertay ?????

ma app ku aik Hadees say wazah kerta hoo mujhey theek say yaad nahi but us k mafhoom yeah hy k ager app kahi koe galt kaam hota dhaikay tu usay pehlay roknay ki kosish karay aur zuban say roknay ki taqat nahi raktay tu qlam say rokay aur ager qalam sy be nahi ker saktay tu dil ma us k liye us kaam ku rokany k liye Dua'a karay

ma ne 22 september ko ye forum join kiya tha,as a juniour member mujhe thori jijhak mehsus hui k agar ma apnay se sinours ko ikhlaqiyat sikhaoon to pata nahi kaisa reaction ho ga,phir b ma apni kamzori aur ghalti manta hoon aur ainda se iss se zaror sabaq hasil karoon ga,haan ma kam az kam aap se kaheen behtar hoon k ghalt kamon ko defend to nahi kar raha..aagay aapke marzi jo b kahain mera zameer jaga hua ha aur ma khud sonay laga hoon,good night and Khuda Hafiz..

 

[Jahil]

yaar wese to admins ke faislon se main koi khas mutmain nhi hota lekin yeh faisla mujhe boht acha laga or yeh b such hai ke is faisle se un users ki dil azaari b hogi jo aise activites main shamil rhe hain lekin ap log agr thande dimagh sochen to apko pta chale ga ke yeh wahid forum hai jisko ek hi family ke kayi kayi users use kr rhe hote hain or is forum ke record ko or image ko dekhte hoye hum main se koi b user apni family ke kisi b member ko is forum main laane se nhi ghabraye ga or uski wajah sirf yehi hai ke yahan koi aisi badikhalqi activites hoti hi nhi ke jiski wajah se hum apni family ke kisi b member ko yahan laane se ghabrain lekin ab hum agar khud hi aisi activites start kardenge chahen az a hi fun hi kyun nahi to hum main se koi hai aisa user jo yeh chahe ke uska bhai ya uski behen is funn ka hissa bane?mera khayal hai koi is baat ke liye razi nhi hoga to hamen phir aise reasons b paida nhi karne chahiye ke jinki wajah se hamare forum ka pichla record or pichli image kharab ho users aate jate rehte hain lekin yeh koi wajah nhi ke hum users ke interest ko dekhte hoye koi b behuda kaam shuro karden yaar ap admins logon ko apne forums ke users hi barhane hain to phir isi internet per aisa muwad b mojod hota hai jis main nojawan nasl boht zyada interest le rhi hoti hai or users ki tadaad b kafi zyada hoti hai phir ap log woh sab kuch kyun nhi karte yahan?maqsad kehne ka sirf yeh hai ke jis tarha pichle saalon se le kr ab tak forums ki achi activites ko dekhte hoye sirf ache log hi aate rahe hain yahan or bure log is forum per burayi na paane ki wajah se jaate rahen hain khud to isi silsile ko barqarar rakhna chahiye taake woh girlz jo kafi arse is forum ko apni safety se mutmain hone ki wajah se ab tak is forum ko use krti rahin hain unko koi sharmindagi na mehsos ho is forum per ane ki or na yeh dar mojod ho ke woh yahan aayengi to koi user unko b na shadi ka parposal pesh karde

 

[zehar]

hmmm hmmmmm

 

[anoush]

i know that k ye hona thaa bcz kuch members ka attitude notice kia tha main ny but ignor ker diya tha. app ny thread close kia ye app ke marzi but main app sab un members ke baat sy agree nahi karti k wahan ya CB main koe behodaa baat hoee hy hum bhe noble,educted and respected family sy belong kerty hain aur apni limits janty hain aur us thread main jo kuch bhi hoa sab limit main reh kar hoa hy thaa app sab k samny hay thread 1st sy ly ker last tak app sab readout ker sakty hain thanx

 

[cutepoison]

Assalam o Alykum TM

Last koch dayz main dekha ja raha ha k mazak he mazak main kafi members TM pay shadiaan karwa rahay hain or phir isi type ki gossip ko TM k kafi sections and Chatbox may bhi karte howay dekhai day rahay hain.. So aisay tamam members k lie aik Important announcement ha k TM aik family forum ha jahan is type ki koi b fazool baat bardasht nai ki jaygi.. or agar is announcement k baad aisi waisi koi b baat kahi b dekhai de to us member k khilaaf strict action lia jayga..

Best Regards

is announcement ko parhne se aesa lag raha hai k jese koi aur ye kam kar raha hai ... shadi karwana yahan shro kis ne kiya tha ???

kehne ka maqsad ye hai k mana k ye bus aap ki hai but jab aap isey road pe nikaaal kr le aii hain to ab ye nahi k aap ki marzi hogi jis route pe chaleenge ..... yahan jo users atey hain wo apna time nikal kar arahai hote hain un ki pasand aur na pasand bhi dekhni chahye .... jin logo ko wo thread pasand nahi the wo khud us thread pe nahi ja rahai the .... ye bilkul ghalat tareeka hai k jese marzi aii dil chaha aur thread ko close kar diya ...
even jab thread aap ne khud hi start kiya tha to you should to apology yourself ... aap aese kese dosro ko qasoorwar tehra rahai hain k log ghalat kam kar rahai hain? aap ko ye kehna chahye k me mauzrat chahti hon k october 2010 ko jo mene thread start kiya tha wo ab mujhe ikhlaqiyat se hat kar lag raha hai so me usey close kar rahi hon... apni ghalati accept kijiye dosro pe ungli na uthaen ...

Thanks ...

 

[Hans_Mukh]

ma ne 22 september ko ye forum join kiya tha,as a juniour member mujhe thori jijhak mehsus hui k agar ma apnay se sinours ko ikhlaqiyat sikhaoon to pata nahi kaisa reaction ho ga,phir b ma apni kamzori aur ghalti manta hoon aur ainda se iss se zaror sabaq hasil karoon ga,haan ma kam az kam aap se kaheen behtar hoon k ghalt kamon ko defend to nahi kar raha..aagay aapke marzi jo b kahain mera zameer jaga hua ha aur ma khud sonay laga hoon,good night and Khuda Hafiz..

ma app ki kisi baat ku rudd nahi kerta aur na he kisi gari ikhlaqi baat ku defend kerta hoo aur rahi baat app k yeah app new thay aur app ku kisi ku smajhan acha nahi samjha but app bhool rahay hy yaha her bunday ku freedom of speech hy aur galt baat ku quote kernay k haq hy chahy wo new ho yeah old app nay apni khals dil ma rakhi aur kisi ku batay nahi ho sakta hy ager app kisi ku inform kerty tu xaroor is baat k notice liya jata aur un memebers ki sirzish be ki jati aur unhey waran be kiya jata

aur rahi baat zameer ki tu hamra be zameer zinda hy is liye pichly kaye salo say is forum k sath chipkay howay na chahaty howay be nahi jatay is forum sy q k is forum say bohat c yaadien wabsata hy aur bohat say talakut banaye hy aur bohat kuch seekha hy is forum say but jaha galat baat hoti hy khabi kisi ku defend nahi kiya chay wo admins he q na hoo aur inhi batoo ii wajh say mairy kaye ikhtilaaf be hy staff aur admin k dermayan jis ki wajah say pehlay ki tarah kaam nahi kerta otherwise poora Tm gawah hy k ma kaisa hoo

 

[RedRose64]

but itne arse baad q aap ko apni ghalti ka ehsaas hoa??

Waliekum AsSalam....
Ye last kuch Days ki bat nahi last few yrs ka kahsakte hain..
magar shayed khayal apko abb aya ahi..''TM Marriage Beauru'' kisne start kiya tha TM p..?
Tab bhi eteraaz hua tha magar apne khud isko as a fun ka darja diya tha...Abb jabkay TM k kasheeda aur ghutanzada mahole ko thora sa khubsurat banane k liye ya ye kehlen k halki phulki tafree k liye phir se shadi section activate hua hai aur jabkay do bandon ki razamandi se yahan kuch hallagulla hota ahi toh apko is stage p kyunkar Eteraaz hua hai?
Aaap acchi tarha jaanti ho na k TM p kistarha ka mahole create kiya gaya aur isi wajhe se na srf TM k members ki dilazaari hui balkay bht sare members ne ana hi band kardiya..
Jahan tak entertainment k dusre sections ki bat hai to har jaga hi aisa mahole banega jahan sara TM ekhatta hone k bajaye grpbandiyon me bategaa...
Kisi Ek banday k liye sarae TM ki tafreh nahi roki jasakti hai...Jo is fun ka hissa na banna chahe na bane lekin kisi ki khushi me khush hokar enjoy to kiya jasakta hai..aur jahan tak rule ki baat hai wo rules to Family forum hi ki tarha rahenge,koi an rule torega aur na hi kisi ki dilazaari karega..

shadi wagira se related tamam batain last 2 years pehle he kisi issue ki waja se khatam kar de gain thein.. per achanak se ye silsila koch dayz pehle dobara se start howa ha and kafi members k objection pay he aj finally ye new rule announce kia gaya ha..
Marriage beauru main agar ap ghore se dekhian to wahan kisi b Male member ki shadi TM ki female larki se nai karwai gai.. just time pass wahan hota raha lakin baqaida tore pay ksi ki b shadi us thread k through nai ki gai

 

[~Bahaar~]

hmmm hmmmmm

sisso yewala apka smily me bht miss karing..

 

[Jahil]

Waliekum AsSalam....
Ye last kuch Days ki bat nahi last few yrs ka kahsakte hain..
magar shayed khayal apko abb aya ahi..''TM Marriage Beauru'' kisne start kiya tha TM p..?
Tab bhi eteraaz hua tha magar apne khud isko as a fun ka darja diya tha...Abb jabkay TM k kasheeda aur ghutanzada mahole ko thora sa khubsurat banane k liye ya ye kehlen k halki phulki tafree k liye phir se shadi section activate hua hai aur jabkay do bandon ki razamandi se yahan kuch hallagulla hota ahi toh apko is stage p kyunkar Eteraaz hua hai?
Aaap acchi tarha jaanti ho na k TM p kistarha ka mahole create kiya gaya aur isi wajhe se na srf TM k members ki dilazaari hui balkay bht sare members ne ana hi band kardiya..
Jahan tak entertainment k dusre sections ki bat hai to har jaga hi aisa mahole banega jahan sara TM ekhatta hone k bajaye grpbandiyon me bategaa...
Kisi Ek banday k liye sarae TM ki tafreh nahi roki jasakti hai...Jo is fun ka hissa na banna chahe na bane lekin kisi ki khushi me khush hokar enjoy to kiya jasakta hai..aur jahan tak rule ki baat hai wo rules to Family forum hi ki tarha rahenge,koi an rule torega aur na hi kisi ki dilazaari karega..

main apki baat se bilkol agree krta hon ab aap plz mujhe yeh clear karden ke kal ussi thread main jab maine apko apni dusri bv bola or apko apni pehli bv se milwane ki baat ki to ap ne mujhe bad ikhlaq or pata nhi kis kis alfaaz se kyun nawaza tha?jis tarha ap apni izzat o nafs ka itna khayal karti hai wesa hi dusri larkyon ke lye kyun nhi sochti?kyun us thread main sirf new girlz ko hi qurbani ka bakra banaya jata hai warna woh activities az a funn ke lye hi hai to phir aap karo gi mujhse shadi? woh b ussi thread main or woh b ussi tarha jis tarha ap khud keh rhi ho yani az a fun?us thread main TM ki old users girlz b krwao shadi silent soul hoti hai wahan usko bolo woh b kare shadi anusha hoti hai wahan usko bolo woh b kre shadi ya dusri old girlz users ki b karao na shadi
izzat o nafs tamaam larkyon ke lye barabar hoti hai bahaar yeh nhi ke sirf new users ko hi pressurised kar ke unki shadiyan karayin jain yeh sab agar fun ke lye hi hai to phir old users ko b is funn ka hissa banna chahiye