Is Beauty Really In The Eye Of The Beholder?

[Sabah]

Asalam O Alaikum, Iam here with A Question,
Be Honest what really attracts you most and why!

physical beauty or beauty from within?

and the next question, which is the main question
Is beauty really in the eye of the beholder?

for me yes, because what is beautiful for me, might not be beautiful for others. and what seems beautiful to others is not beautiful to me, {)^}) what attracts and impress me is a personality not a beauty but sometime cuteness does really impress and it's apart from this question, so what you guys think about this question which I asked let me know.
Regards
@RedRose64 @hoorain @Nelli @Pari @Tooba Khan @Qawareer @masoom_se_chahat @Detective @DuFFer @Rubi

 

[Ghazal_Ka_Chiragh]

Assalaamu alaikum Sabah sis nice poll

for me also the answer is YES . . . . .

 

[Sabah]

Bro, Kindly define the reason as well

 

[Jahil]

hmmmmmmmmmm niceee thread
bs is se zyada english na likhni ati hai na samjh main ati hai

 

[Ghazal_Ka_Chiragh]

Bro, Kindly define the reason as well

Ab ye tafseel se mujhe nahin pata bas aankhen zyada pyaari lagti hain mujhe tabhi kaha sis

 

[Jahil]

wese yeh is question ki urdu translation kya bane gi? muje b bta do plz take main b javab de sakun

 

[MSC]

VOTED yes Ofcourse

Basically toh it depends on ppl....
but most of the time Beauty beholder k ankhon ka hi hote hain......jo insan khud positive thinking and behaviour rakte ho woh hamesha dosro mein positive dekhte hai.....aur logo ko apne bato se aur dekhne k andaz se beautify karte hain.....

 

[*Muslim*]

walaikum salam
ap ka sawal agar urdu me b huta tu isku aur gehrai se jawab diya jata
behre haal ankhen chehre me ek aham kirdar aada karti hy aur ankho ki wajhe se bht se loog khenche jaate hy aur ankho se baten bhi huti hy sirf pyar mohabat ki ny bal ke dusri bhi ankho ke isharon me kayi baten bina zuban hilae bhi keh sakte hy,

aur ye mera mushaheda hy ankho se insan ka carecter bhi kabhi kabar pata chal jata hy matlab uske dekhne ke andaz se uski nazar se wallahu aalam

 

[MSC]

walaikum salam
ap ka sawal agar urdu me b huta tu isku aur gehrai se jawab diya jata
behre haal ankhen chehre me ek aham kirdar aada karti hy aur ankho ki wajhe se bht se loog khenche jaate hy aur ankho se baten bhi huti hy sirf pyar mohabat ki ny bal ke dusri bhi ankho ke isharon me kayi baten bina zuban hilae bhi keh sakte hy,

aur ye mera mushaheda hy ankho se insan ka carecter bhi kabhi kabar pata chal jata hy matlab uske dekhne ke andaz se uski nazar se wallahu aalam

agreed with ur saying, but
i think yaha pe kuch memebers sawal nahi samjhe.....
Sabah ka matlab yeh hain k kia Khobsorati insan k dekhne mei hota hain ya Insan khobsorat ho toh hi log unhe khobsorat samjhengay......
i hope mein ne sawal clear kar liya ho

 

[*Muslim*]

agreed with ur saying, but
i think yaha pe kuch memebers sawal nahi samjhe.....
Sabah ka matlab yeh hain k kia Khobsorati insan k dekhne mei hota hain ya Insan khobsorat ho toh hi log unhe khobsorat samjhengay......
i hope mein ne sawal clear kar liya ho

ab isme dekhen wale k apne nazarie hute hy
insaan tu hy hi khubsurat dusre maqlooq ki banisabat kiu k Allah ne farmaya(کہ ہم نے انسان کو بہت اچھی صورت میں پیدا کیا ہے)

ab ek shaqs huta hy wu zahiri khubsurti ku dekta hy aur ek huta hy ju wu khubsurti ku dekhta hy ju uske kirdar uske aqlaq uski seerat se dikti hy

tu apne apne nazariat ki baat hy

 

[MSC]

ab isme dekhen wale k apne nazarie hute hy
insaan tu hy hi khubsurat dusre maqlooq ki banisabat kiu k Allah ne farmaya(کہ ہم نے انسان کو بہت اچھی صورت میں پیدا کیا ہے)

ab ek shaqs huta hy wu zahiri khubsurti ku dekta hy aur ek huta hy ju wu khubsurti ku dekhta hy ju uske kirdar uske aqlaq uski seerat se dikti hy

tu apne apne nazariat ki baat hy

yup Exactly.....

 

[Jahil]

thank you msc ab mujhe b smjh agaya quest kisi mahaan admi ne kaha hai bohot khobsorat hote hain woh log jo bohot khobsorat nazar arhe hote hain
lekin unse bhi zyada khobsorat hote hain woh log jo khobsorty parakh rahe hote hain
so yeh dekhne wali ankh per depend karta hai ke aya uski khobsorty us nazr ane wali khobsorty se kam hai jo sirf nazr ane wali khobsorty hi dekh rhi hai
ya phir us ankh ki khobsorty us nazar ane wali khobsorty se bhi zyada hai jo woh na nazar ane wali khobsorty bhi dekh rhi hai

 

[MSC]

thank you msc ab mujhe b smjh agaya quest kisi mahaan admi ne kaha hai bohot khobsorat hote hain woh log jo bohot khobsorat nazar arhe hote hain
lekin unse bhi zyada khobsorat hote hain woh log jo khobsorty parakh rahe hote hain
so yeh dekhne wali ankh per depend karta hai ke aya uski khobsorty us nazr ane wali khobsorty se kam hai jo sirf nazr ane wali khobsorty hi dekh rhi hai
ya phir us ankh ki khobsorty us nazar ane wali khobsorty se bhi zyada hai jo woh na nazar ane wali khobsorty bhi dekh rhi hai

MASHALLAH
is it u Fahad?

 

[Jahil]

mazaq ura rhi ho?

 

[MSC]

hehe
arey nahiii Appriciate kar rahe hon DUFFER urf Vampire urf Fahad
its unbelievable apke moun se aise ache batain sunna

 

[cute bhoot]

yeah beauty lies in the eyes of beholder im totally agree

 

[Nelly]

hmmm mujhe dono attract karti hain, mean ikhalqi khoobsurti b aur zahiri b. besides, agar kisi ka ikhlaq accha aur khoobsurat hai den it does not matter, i get attracted to them, but agar koi zahiri taur per khoobsurat hai lekin akhalq un ka had se ziada bura, den cannot attract me, aur ese logon se main khud hi baat karna b pasand nai karti aur avoid karti hoon.....

n jese aap ne kaha k kya khoobsurti dekhne wale ki aankh mai hoti hai tou YES, to me everyone whom i like or whoever attracts me whether its their smile, their personality, cuteness, way of talking, care or anything, they are beautiful to me no matter how others see them or think about them.

 

[Hoorain]

waalaikum assalam
confusion
jab kisi se milain ya daikhain to shuroo may uski personality hi attract karti hay,,jis may zaruri nhi k bohot khubsurti ho magar neat si shakhsiyat ,,baat karne ka style kitna simple aur straightforward hay ye sab cheezain ,,,magar obviously saamne wala ka IKHLAQ agar acha hay to aik long lasting impact rehta hay hamesha hmare liye attractive rehta hay ,,agar zahri khubsuti hay magar behavior acha nhi aadtain rude aur unreliable aur doghli hain to wo insan sab se bura lagtey hay chahe kitna bhi khubsurat hon..
Magar maire saath mostly aisa hota ahy k muje koi bohat attractive lagge to baqi sab ka kehna hota hay koi khaas baat hamain nhi dikh rhi wo apni apni pasand pe depend karta hay even k aadtain to khud muje saamne wale ki nhi pta hoti but attraction hoti hay!
to maira jawab na Yes hay na NO
It depends on both i guess,,,,beholder ki eye may hoti hay magar saamne waale may bhi kuch to hota hi hay awain to har koi attactive nhi lagta koi koi hi lagta hay

 

[Sabah]

waalaikum assalam
confusion
jab kisi se milain ya daikhain to shuroo may uski personality hi attract karti hay,,jis may zaruri nhi k bohot khubsurti ho magar neat si shakhsiyat ,,baat karne ka style kitna simple aur straightforward hay ye sab cheezain ,,,magar obviously saamne wala ka IKHLAQ agar acha hay to aik long lasting impact rehta hay hamesha hmare liye attractive rehta hay ,,agar zahri khubsuti hay magar behavior acha nhi aadtain rude aur unreliable aur doghli hain to wo insan sab se bura lagtey hay chahe kitna bhi khubsurat hon..
Magar maire saath mostly aisa hota ahy k muje koi bohat attractive lagge to baqi sab ka kehna hota hay koi khaas baat hamain nhi dikh rhi wo apni apni pasand pe depend karta hay even k aadtain to khud muje saamne wale ki nhi pta hoti but attraction hoti hay!
to maira jawab na Yes hay na NO
It depends on both i guess,,,,beholder ki eye may hoti hay magar saamne waale may bhi kuch to hota hi hay awain to har koi attactive nhi lagta koi koi hi lagta hay

hehe aapke lie I dont know ka option lagwana chahye tha mai ne, per khair aapke confusion ko read ker k mai khud confuse hugae shoro mei pir samajh gaye what are you talking about. [DOUBLEPOST=1346999607][/DOUBLEPOST]

hmmm mujhe dono attract karti hain, mean ikhalqi khoobsurti b aur zahiri b. besides, agar kisi ka ikhlaq accha aur khoobsurat hai den it does not matter, i get attracted to them, but agar koi zahiri taur per khoobsurat hai lekin akhalq un ka had se ziada bura, den cannot attract me, aur ese logon se main khud hi baat karna b pasand nai karti aur avoid karti hoon.....

n jese aap ne kaha k kya khoobsurti dekhne wale ki aankh mai hoti hai tou YES, to me everyone whom i like or whoever attracts me whether its their smile, their personality, cuteness, way of talking, care or anything, they are beautiful to me no matter how others see them or think about them.

well said. Agree

 

[Hoorain]

hehe aapke lie I dont know ka option lagwana chahye tha mai ne, per khair aapke confusion ko read ker k mai khud confuse hugae shoro mei pir samajh gaye what are you talking about. [DOUBLEPOST=1346999607][/DOUBLEPOST]
well said. Agree

hahah yeah wohi to aik to main confuse barri ho jaati hun aksar sawalon par