ahan shehroo kya baat hy u are absolutely right aesa hi hota hy as u said khud pasandi insaan ko selfish bna deti hy chahy wo me hi q na hun good goingkhud ko dosroN se kam na samjhna, khud pe bharosa rakhna aur cheez hai kyunkay yeh sab to humen zindagi mein aagay baRhne mein madad karta hai.
lakin khud pasandi takabar ki tarf le jati hai, us mein insan dosron ko khud se kamtar samjhne lagta hai. aur takabar karne walon k liay farmaya gaya hai k woh jannat mein dakhil nahi hon gay.
shaayed hum dono apnay apnay nazriay se khud pasandi ko dekh rahay hain is liay is par mutafiq nahi ho paa rahay.