Well it's a book, one of my closest shared with me so thought of sharing to @hoorain sis.
And others can take advantage as well 
Below is the table content & Attached is the full version of book
Table of Contents
INTRODUCTION ........................................................................................................................................................8
ABOUT THE AUTHOR ............................................................................................................................................. 10
PILLARS OF RELATIONSHIPS .................................................................................................................................. 11
CHAPTER 1 ........................................................................................................................................................ 12
Relationship with the Self ..................................................................................................................................... 12
Beware of minor and major sins ........................................................................................................................... 12
Beware of the fitnah (temptation) of wealth ........................................................................................................ 12
Choosing righteous companions ........................................................................................................................... 13
Temptation to show off ......................................................................................................................................... 13
Control your anger ................................................................................................................................................ 13
Humble yourself .................................................................................................................................................... 14
Watch out for Hasad (Envy) .................................................................................................................................. 14
Be Generous .......................................................................................................................................................... 15
CHAPTER 2 ........................................................................................................................................................ 16
Relationship with Allah.......................................................................................................................................... 16
Offer five obligatory prayers promptly ................................................................................................................. 16
Pray 12 Sunnah prayers ......................................................................................................................................... 17
Pray tahajjud prayer .............................................................................................................................................. 17
Make dhikr constantly ........................................................................................................................................... 17
Seek forgiveness 100 times a day ......................................................................................................................... 18
Thank Allah ............................................................................................................................................................ 19
Make dua ............................................................................................................................................................... 20
Tell Allah that you love Him .................................................................................................................................. 20
Enjoining what is good and forbidding what is evil............................................................................................... 21
Give charity for the sake of Allah .......................................................................................................................... 21
Place Your Need before Allah, Not Men ............................................................................................................... 22
CHAPTER 3 ........................................................................................................................................................ 23
Relationship with Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu alaihe wasallam ..................................................................... 23
Follow the authentic Sunnah and stay away from bidah ...................................................................................... 23
Obey him ............................................................................................................................................................... 24
Send salawat and Salam upon him especially on Fridays. This will increase our blessings from Allah ................ 24
Make dua for him .................................................................................................................................................. 24
Love him more than you love yourself, your family, and your wealth ................................................................. 25
Show respect for the Prophet Sallallahu alaihe wasallam and for his Sunnah ..................................................... 25
Defend our Prophet Sallallahu alaihe wasallam and promote his good name ..................................................... 25
Read the biography of Prophet Sallallahu alaihe wasallam from authentic sources and benefit from the many lessons that they contain ...................................................................................................................................... 25
Learn the Sunnah by studying its sources. We must study the hadith and strive to understand them correctly 26
Follow the Sunnah in its entirety, giving priority to what we are obliged to do .................................................. 26
Dislike the actions of those who defame the Prophet Sallallahu alaihe wasallam or disapprove of his Sunnah . 26
CHAPTER 4 ........................................................................................................................................................ 28
Relationship with the Qur’an ................................................................................................................................ 28
Learn to read Qur’an with tajweed ....................................................................................................................... 29
Recite the Quran every day ................................................................................................................................... 29
Read the Quran’s translation and explanations and ponder upon it .................................................................... 30
Act upon the Quran’s teachings ............................................................................................................................ 30
Teach others .......................................................................................................................................................... 30
CHAPTER 5 ........................................................................................................................................................ 32
Relationship with the Wealth ................................................................................................................................ 32
Seek forgiveness for increase in wealth ................................................................................................................ 33
Give sadaqah whilst you are in good health ......................................................................................................... 33
Spend on your husband if he is in need ................................................................................................................ 34
Allah is Good and accepts nothing but that which is good ................................................................................... 34
Ongoing Charity ..................................................................................................................................................... 34
Charity from your husband’s wealth ..................................................................................................................... 35
Use kind words if you don’t have money to help others ...................................................................................... 35
Do not follow up your spending with reminders .................................................................................................. 36
Giving charity increase the wealth ........................................................................................................................ 36
Do not take anything from your husband’s wealth without his permission......................................................... 37
Spend on your parents if they are poor and your are rich .................................................................................... 37
Being dutiful includes spending on them if they are in need ............................................................................... 38
Relationship with the World Around You ............................................................................................................. 39
CHAPTER 6 ........................................................................................................................................................ 41
Relationship with the Parents ............................................................................................................................... 41
Call them often if they live far away or visit them if they live close by ................................................................ 42
Take care of their needs ........................................................................................................................................ 42
Be gentle with them .............................................................................................................................................. 42
Be patient over things which you may dislike ....................................................................................................... 42
CHAPTER 7 ........................................................................................................................................................ 44
Relationship with the Husband ............................................................................................................................. 44
Be thankful to him ................................................................................................................................................. 44
Support him in his decisions. Don’t go against his decisions, if you dislike something, talk to him gently when his is in a good mood and give him reasons for your opinion .............................................................................. 45
Take care of him .................................................................................................................................................... 45
Don’t complain about his shortfalls to his family or to your family members ..................................................... 45
Don’t argue with him when he is angry ................................................................................................................ 46
Be sensible what you spend from his earnings ..................................................................................................... 46
Don’t ask him for more than he can afford ........................................................................................................... 46
Don’t complain to him about his parents or his family ......................................................................................... 47
Don’t say no when he wants to intimate with you unless you’ve a reason to say so. ......................................... 47
CHAPTER 8 ........................................................................................................................................................ 48
Relationship with the Children .............................................................................................................................. 48
Teach them about Islam ........................................................................................................................................ 48
Teach them to pray ............................................................................................................................................... 48
Instil the love of Prophet Sallallahu alaihe wasallam and teach them to read Qur’an with tajweed ................... 49
Give them an Islamic environment ....................................................................................................................... 49
Teach them to take care of needy ........................................................................................................................ 49
Dress them according to Islamic ruling ................................................................................................................. 50
Develop the love for Allah and Prophet Sallallahu alaihe wasallam in their hearts ............................................. 50
Teach them to thank Allah for the blessings ......................................................................................................... 51
Love them, hug them, and kiss them frequently .................................................................................................. 51
Treat all your children equally ............................................................................................................................... 51
Reward them for their good actions and appreciate them .................................................................................. 51
Teach them to select good friends for themselves ............................................................................................... 52
CHAPTER 9 ........................................................................................................................................................ 53
Relationship with Relatives ................................................................................................................................... 53
Be kind to them and treat them respectfully ........................................................................................................ 53
Don’t compete with them ..................................................................................................................................... 53
Stay away from conflicts ....................................................................................................................................... 54
Always stand by their side when they are in need ............................................................................................... 54
Visit them often and call them over to your house and give them gifts .............................................................. 54
If you get in fight with them be the first one to give them salaam and don’t cut off your relationship for more than three days ..................................................................................................................................................... 55
CONCLUSION ......................................................................................................................................................... 56
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Well it's a book, one of my closest shared with me so thought of sharing to @hoorain sis. And others can take advantage as well
Table of ContentsINTRODUCTION ........................................................................................................................................................8ABOUT THE AUTHOR ............................................................................................................................................. 10PILLARS OF RELATIONSHIPS .................................................................................................................................. 11CHAPTER 1 ........................................................................................................................................................ 12Relationship with the Self ..................................................................................................................................... 12Beware of minor and major sins ........................................................................................................................... 12Beware of the fitnah (temptation) of wealth ........................................................................................................ 12Choosing righteous companions ........................................................................................................................... 13Temptation to show off ......................................................................................................................................... 13Control your anger ................................................................................................................................................ 13Humble yourself .................................................................................................................................................... 14Watch out for Hasad (Envy) .................................................................................................................................. 14Be Generous .......................................................................................................................................................... 15CHAPTER 2 ........................................................................................................................................................ 16Relationship with Allah.......................................................................................................................................... 16Offer five obligatory prayers promptly ................................................................................................................. 16Pray 12 Sunnah prayers ......................................................................................................................................... 17Pray tahajjud prayer .............................................................................................................................................. 17Make dhikr constantly ........................................................................................................................................... 17Seek forgiveness 100 times a day ......................................................................................................................... 18Thank Allah ............................................................................................................................................................ 19Make dua ............................................................................................................................................................... 20Tell Allah that you love Him .................................................................................................................................. 20Enjoining what is good and forbidding what is evil............................................................................................... 21Give charity for the sake of Allah .......................................................................................................................... 21Place Your Need before Allah, Not Men ............................................................................................................... 22CHAPTER 3 ........................................................................................................................................................ 23Relationship with Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu alaihe wasallam ..................................................................... 23Follow the authentic Sunnah and stay away from bidah ...................................................................................... 23Obey him ............................................................................................................................................................... 24Send salawat and Salam upon him especially on Fridays. This will increase our blessings from Allah ................ 24Make dua for him .................................................................................................................................................. 24Love him more than you love yourself, your family, and your wealth ................................................................. 25Show respect for the Prophet Sallallahu alaihe wasallam and for his Sunnah ..................................................... 25Defend our Prophet Sallallahu alaihe wasallam and promote his good name ..................................................... 25Read the biography of Prophet Sallallahu alaihe wasallam from authentic sources and benefit from the many lessons that they contain ...................................................................................................................................... 25Learn the Sunnah by studying its sources. We must study the hadith and strive to understand them correctly 26Follow the Sunnah in its entirety, giving priority to what we are obliged to do .................................................. 26Dislike the actions of those who defame the Prophet Sallallahu alaihe wasallam or disapprove of his Sunnah . 26CHAPTER 4 ........................................................................................................................................................ 28Relationship with the Qur’an ................................................................................................................................ 28Learn to read Qur’an with tajweed ....................................................................................................................... 29Recite the Quran every day ................................................................................................................................... 29Read the Quran’s translation and explanations and ponder upon it .................................................................... 30Act upon the Quran’s teachings ............................................................................................................................ 30Teach others .......................................................................................................................................................... 30CHAPTER 5 ........................................................................................................................................................ 32Relationship with the Wealth ................................................................................................................................ 32Seek forgiveness for increase in wealth ................................................................................................................ 33Give sadaqah whilst you are in good health ......................................................................................................... 33Spend on your husband if he is in need ................................................................................................................ 34Allah is Good and accepts nothing but that which is good ................................................................................... 34Ongoing Charity ..................................................................................................................................................... 34Charity from your husband’s wealth ..................................................................................................................... 35Use kind words if you don’t have money to help others ...................................................................................... 35Do not follow up your spending with reminders .................................................................................................. 36Giving charity increase the wealth ........................................................................................................................ 36Do not take anything from your husband’s wealth without his permission......................................................... 37Spend on your parents if they are poor and your are rich .................................................................................... 37Being dutiful includes spending on them if they are in need ............................................................................... 38Relationship with the World Around You ............................................................................................................. 39CHAPTER 6 ........................................................................................................................................................ 41Relationship with the Parents ............................................................................................................................... 41Call them often if they live far away or visit them if they live close by ................................................................ 42Take care of their needs ........................................................................................................................................ 42Be gentle with them .............................................................................................................................................. 42Be patient over things which you may dislike ....................................................................................................... 42CHAPTER 7 ........................................................................................................................................................ 44Relationship with the Husband ............................................................................................................................. 44Be thankful to him ................................................................................................................................................. 44Support him in his decisions. Don’t go against his decisions, if you dislike something, talk to him gently when his is in a good mood and give him reasons for your opinion .............................................................................. 45Take care of him .................................................................................................................................................... 45Don’t complain about his shortfalls to his family or to your family members ..................................................... 45Don’t argue with him when he is angry ................................................................................................................ 46Be sensible what you spend from his earnings ..................................................................................................... 46Don’t ask him for more than he can afford ........................................................................................................... 46Don’t complain to him about his parents or his family ......................................................................................... 47Don’t say no when he wants to intimate with you unless you’ve a reason to say so. ......................................... 47CHAPTER 8 ........................................................................................................................................................ 48Relationship with the Children .............................................................................................................................. 48Teach them about Islam ........................................................................................................................................ 48Teach them to pray ............................................................................................................................................... 48Instil the love of Prophet Sallallahu alaihe wasallam and teach them to read Qur’an with tajweed ................... 49Give them an Islamic environment ....................................................................................................................... 49Teach them to take care of needy ........................................................................................................................ 49Dress them according to Islamic ruling ................................................................................................................. 50Develop the love for Allah and Prophet Sallallahu alaihe wasallam in their hearts ............................................. 50Teach them to thank Allah for the blessings ......................................................................................................... 51Love them, hug them, and kiss them frequently .................................................................................................. 51Treat all your children equally ............................................................................................................................... 51Reward them for their good actions and appreciate them .................................................................................. 51Teach them to select good friends for themselves ............................................................................................... 52CHAPTER 9 ........................................................................................................................................................ 53Relationship with Relatives ................................................................................................................................... 53Be kind to them and treat them respectfully ........................................................................................................ 53Don’t compete with them ..................................................................................................................................... 53Stay away from conflicts ....................................................................................................................................... 54Always stand by their side when they are in need ............................................................................................... 54Visit them often and call them over to your house and give them gifts .............................................................. 54If you get in fight with them be the first one to give them salaam and don’t cut off your relationship for more than three days ..................................................................................................................................................... 55CONCLUSION 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