Love Marriage

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  1. Zakwan

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    Bohat logon se suna hei k love marriage achi sabit nahi hoti. Isi liye shaadi arrange marriage (Parents ki marzi se) karni chaiye. Aap logon ka is baray mein kya kiheal hei?
     
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    humm nice topic
    bro ek baat mei bata do girl wife ka roop mei azeeb hotei ha.boy ko ade seza to donia mei miljati ha wife ka roopme .our bake ade ioper ja ker.
    marriage chahe love ha arrange.baad mei pechtna perta he
     
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    luv marriage ho ya arrange.. yeh dono tub hi chalti hai jub husband n wife k beech trust, understanding & true luv hoo... dats all i believe..
     
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    tumhari bhi 1 din 1 larki se shadi hogi.. phir bolna yeh usko{}{678u
     
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    chalo be shadei sa ache mei hodkose kera pasend kero ga
     
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    Haha
    200% true. Filmon mein kehtay hein na: shadi woh laddu hei jo kahay woh bhi pachtaye aur jo na kahay woh bhi pachtaye.
     
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    Nahi i think love marriage ziadda nahi chalti.
     
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    haa its true ke luv marraige ziada nhi chalti..lakin ab kismat par depend hota hai ap ki.... meine apni life mei experience dekha hai...arrange marraige ka....sab kuch kismat par depend hota hai....
     
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    Yaar kismat mein bhi hihi hota hei. Lakint love marriage mein problems ziadda hoti hein.
     
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    i knw problems hoti hai LM mei...well i ll prefer to go wid arrange marriage..haa agar luv hoogia tu luv marraige comes first:D...
     
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    I think k luv ho ya arrange dono may understanding honi chahiyay...zaroori nahe hai k ager luv marriage hai to wo kamyab nahe hoti..kamyab kerna humara farz hota hai..or mere khayal say insan ko luv or arrange dono he kerni chahiyay means k ager ap luv marriage kerte ho to us may ap k parents ki bhi marzi ho to he wo marriage kamyab hoti hai werna nahe..
     
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    ahmed bhai u kehte shai ho k lov marriage humaray mashray may ziyada kamyaab nahi hotin..lakin isay kamyaab yah naakaam bananay may kis ka hath hai..unhe ka jinhon nay shadi ki hoti hai na
    so agar un k darmiyaan Love itna ziyada howa..trust howa..to yehi 2 chezain rishton ko mazboot banati hain
    so i think lov marriage ho yah arrange dono he kamyaab sabit ho skati hain agar husband and wife khud chahyein to...!
     
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    Yeh sahi hei k shaadi ko kamyaab husband aur wife ka haath hota hei. Lakin shaadi sirf husband nd wife ka hi rishta tohri hota hei. is mein tu parents ki razamandi bohat zaroori hoti hei. Ab agar ladka ya ladki parents ki marzi k bagar shaadi karain tu kya woh shaadi kamyaab hogi?
     
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    agreed wid u
    gr undrstanding hee nhio hu gee tu koi b maariage kmyab nhi hoti
     
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    main to lov or arrange marriage dono say agree karongi..sirf lov yah sirf arrange karnay say behtar hai k lov and arrange combine kar k karo or isi may kamyaab zindagi ka raz hai..baki kismat per hai
     
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    tu wo phr lov nhi attraction marrige hu gee{}{678u
    gr tru love hu tu kesy nhi chaly ge marrige
    ii think in arrange marrigez u r expectation cud b limited at first..(u don't kno wat othr person can do or can't)
    but in lov ppl mak gr8 expectationz or jab wo pori nhi hoti ( shadi sae phely jo promisz kry hoty hae)
    tu...sab kuch end hu jata hae {(thinkg)}
     
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    Yup u r ryt...
     
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    well dats wrong Ahmed bahi.. ager app note karain to bht si arrange marriages bhi hai jo nahi chlati hai.. serf luv marriage main a-sa nahi hota hai.. husband n wife ko yeh relation chalana hota... 1 trust n understanding per.. jub tuk unke beech yeh 2 cheez nahi hongi.. to unka relation nahi chal sakega..
     
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    Haan yeh baat sahi hei k bophat si arrange marriage nahi chaltin. Lakin agar aap bhi note karain tu love marriage ziadda kharab sabit hotin hein. Uski wajah yeh k yah tu ladki k parents shadi per raazi nahi hotay ya phir ladkay k. Chaye Husband nd wife ek dosray se kitni hi mohabbat kyon na karlain. Zindagi mein kahin na kahin jaker unko ehsas hota hei k unoh ne parents ki baat na maan ker bohat bari galti ki hei. Isliye nahi k woh wife ya husband ek dosray se tang aagaye hun balke is liye kyon k unko ehsas hota hei k hum ne parents ki naa farmani ki hei aur woh hum se khush nahi hein. Aur agar parents khush nahi hein tu shadi mein Barkat bhi nahi rehti. Haan agar parents khush hein tu 100% love marriage kamyaab hoti hei. Aur baaqi sab kismat ka khel hei.
     
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    well dats ryt bro..
     

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