Coffee With RedRose- Dream Boy
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Allah apke iradon ko aur mazboot banaye apko apke maqsad e hayat me kamiyab kare aur apke raste ko asaan kare Aameen
kya apne apni zindagi me aise koi amal kiye hain jisse sharmindagi mehsoos huyi ho
aur abtak aise konsa amal hai apka jisse yaad karke aap khush hote ho
kya aap college me deen ka kaam karte ho nahi to kyun aur agar kar rahe hain to uski kya surat hai
agar aage karna chahte hain to kis tarah shuruat karenge
Ameen
Zindage me aisa koi bara amal tu nahe kiya jis se sharmindage mehsoos hue ho but chote amal kafi huehain jb ksie ko hurt kiya then bat me sharmindage mehsoos hue....
hmmm waise tu bohat se amal hain but ek amal jb bhe yaad karta hun tu bohat khushe hote hai jb first time me ne namaz parhe first tme roza rakha and first time Quran parha ye me apne bachpan ki baat kar raha hun aur and papa ka wo pyar yaad ata hai jis pyaar se mere papa ne mujhe sikhaya aur roza rahne ke liye kaha mere bachpan me is liye wo din yaad karke khushe hote hai....
Agr clg ki baat hai tu clg nahe clg me deen ke kaam nahe karta ab kyun nahe karta kyun ke yahan koi intert he nahe leta hamare islamiat ke sir parha rahe hoten hain aur Hafiz ap khud soche Hafiz bore ho rahe hote hain is subject se aur unhe class me neend a rahe hote hai aur hame khe rahe hote hai ke yaar kitna boring hai ye subject tb jb hum unhe kuch khete hain tu age se hanse lag jate hain and me tu mostly Hafiz ke sath he behta hun aur mujhe bohat herani hote hain un ki aatein sun kar......
Shurwat use tarah karunga ke sb musalmano ko kahunga ke Allah ke Bataye hue raaste par chalen aur Allah ne jis maqsad ke liye hame is duniya me bhega hai hum use maqsad par concentrate karen Quran Majeed ko gor se parhe samjhe aur us par amal karen take hamare duniya aur akharat dono me kamiyab rahen.....
Jazakallah khair bro
Allah apko khush rakhe Aameen
apko apke ghar wale kya kehte hain bhola ya hoshiyar sidha ya bigda hua
aur apke dost apke bare me kya rai rakhte hain
aur apko jo nahi chahte pasand nahi karte wo kya rai rakhte hain uski kya wajhe hai
Allah apko khush rakhe Aameen
apko apke ghar wale kya kehte hain bhola ya hoshiyar sidha ya bigda hua
aur apke dost apke bare me kya rai rakhte hain
aur apko jo nahi chahte pasand nahi karte wo kya rai rakhte hain uski kya wajhe hai
AMEENJazakallah khair bro
Allah apko khush rakhe Aameen
apko apke ghar wale kya kehte hain bhola ya hoshiyar sidha ya bigda hua
aur apke dost apke bare me kya rai rakhte hain
aur apko jo nahi chahte pasand nahi karte wo kya rai rakhte hain uski kya wajhe hai
Mujhe mere ghar wale bhola nad sedha kheten hain.....
jasie ke me ne phele bhe kaha tha ke mera koi dost nahe hai jo dost hain wo tm par he hain aur agr tm frnds ki baat ki jaye tu sb ap ke samne he hai.....
aur jo mujhe nahe chahte tu zahir hai muje me hi koi khami hoge jo wo mujhe nahe chahte leken wo mujhe kyun nahe chahte aur kyun pasand nahe karte ye me khud bhe nahe janta bas ye samaj leta hun ke mujhe se koi ghalte hue hogi ya me hi acha frnds nahe ban paya....
41. Bohat se aise pal hain jinhe me nahe dhorana chahta un me se ek pal ye hai.....jb hamare home me jins hamare sath raha karte the it s was 2 scary almost 9 years tak hum us homeme raha aur dar me mare raat ko neend nahe ate the har waqt jin nazarate the abhe bhe yaad kara hun tu dar lagta hai...and it is true..COFFEE WITH RR
PART 5
42. Fndship net se be ho sakte hai but kise par trust karna bohat mushkilhota hai...kyun ke ap ko pata nahe hota ke ek shaks ap se sach bol raha hai ya jhoot aur ap us ke bare me kuch bhe nahe jante ap ke samne ache ban raha hi but real me kuch aur ho but y ebaat kar kise ke liye nahe age both true bol rahe hon tu net se bhe bohat ache frnds ban jate hai jo ke aam zindage me bhe nahe ban pate jin pechan hote hai wo tu dhoka nahe khate but jo new hoten hai net life me wo dhoka kha jatn hain.....
43. Subah 4:30 am for fajr namaz aur kbhi kbhi 7:00 am aur raat ka time fix nahe hota mostly tu 11:00 pm ka phr 12:00 am
44. Ghar ke sare kaam he me bohat shauq se karta hun...aur ghusa is baat par ata hai jb koi mujhe achanak kahe ke jaldi se tayar ho joa falah jagah jana hai tu mujhe ghusa a jata hai agr koi jane se 1 day phele kahan then nahe ata...
45. Innocent ho sb ki felling ka khayal rakne wala ho khush mazaj ho aaur apne khuse se ziyada dosrun ki khushe ka khayal ho...
46. Shadi zindage ka ek bohat ehem rishta hai aur age ja kar ise rishte se aur rishte ban jate han...shadi me 2 cheezun ka hona bohat zaroori hai ek trust and second love aur dono hunge tu ye zindage bhe jannat jaise lage ge aur ek bhenahe ho tu lie me ek kami se reh jate hai and understanding bhe bohat zaroori hai understanding hoge tu dono ek dosre ko samaj sakenge aur life ache guzrege agr but mee nazar me lovemarrige is best kyun ke ap dono ek dosre ko samajte bhe ho aur love bhe ahota hai aur understanding bhe but love both side se ho na k one side se aur arrange marriage me sb se pheleekdosre ko samajna parta hai janna parta hai aur risky hota hai agr shadi ke bad understanding na hue tu zindage azab ban jate hai 2 cheezein most important haun
1.love
2.understandiing
agr dono hain tu ap samaj len ke ise duniya me hi apko jannat ki ek chote se jhalak mil gaye...
47.Dosti aur mohabbat me ziyada farq nahe dono true hun tu hamesha sath nibaten hain agr frndship me dhoka mila tu phr kise se dosti karne se phele sochana parta hai aur agr mohabbat me dhoka mile tu 2 bar mohabbat nahe hote frndship me damag sichta hai aur mohabbat me dil sochta hai...
48. Makkah.....
49. Sb ki feeling ka khayak rakhta hunkbhi kbhi bohat ghusa a jata hai kbhikbhi bohat emotional ho jata hun ziyada clever nahe hun Hansta bohat hun....
50.Mujhe bohat acha laga aur bohat maza bhe aya aur is baat ki khuse bhe hue kai ap sb mujhe aur bhe ache tarah jan gaye
db..apki nazar mei mohabbat kia hai?..
kia apko aik larka aur larki ki frndship theek lagti hai?..agar theek to kyon...and please isey islamic point of view ko rakh bhi batayega...?
kia earli age mei jinko pyar hota hai..unhe apne pyar ko izhar karna chahiye..?...agar karein ge to woh apne parents ko kaise batayege apne pyar ke bare mei..in earli age?..
kia apko aik larka aur larki ki frndship theek lagti hai?..agar theek to kyon...and please isey islamic point of view ko rakh bhi batayega...?
kia earli age mei jinko pyar hota hai..unhe apne pyar ko izhar karna chahiye..?...agar karein ge to woh apne parents ko kaise batayege apne pyar ke bare mei..in earli age?..
Mohabbat ek ehsas hai jo kbhe bhe kahen bhe kise se bhe ho saktha hai mohabbat ki bhe bohat se iqsam hain ek ALLAH ki mohabbat hamare mohabbat ka haqdar tu sirf ALLAH he hai leken ALLAH ne insanao ko bhe paida kiya take wo mil jul kar mohabbat ke sath rahen bohat se log ye sochten hai ke mohabbat chote age me nahe hote but wo ghalat sochten hain mohabbat ki koi age nahe hote wo kbhi bhe kise se bhe ho jate hai aur ap ka mohabbat par bas nahe chalta ap apne ap ko kise se mohabbat hon se rok nahe sakte...aur is ke ehsas ap ko tb hota hai jb wo shaks ap se dor chala jaye mohabbat par kise ka bas nahe agr kise ka bas hota tu aj kal ke dair me koi mohabbat na karta aur ek aur ghalat fhemi hai insano ki kye mohabbat kise ko dheke bina nahe ho sakte agr aise baat hai tu JO LOG Allah SE MOHABBAT KARTEN HAI KYA UNHO NE Alah ko dehka hai kya unho ne ALLah ko dehk kar mohaabt ki hai......nahe......phr log kaise kheten hain ke KISE KO DEHKE BINA MOHABBAT NAHE ho sakte......Mohabbat tu do dilo ka rishta hota hai agr ap ye samajten hai ke mohabbat sirf ek larke ko shakal or surat dehk kar hote hai tu ye ghalat hai Agr ap larke ko us ki suraat dekh kar mohabbat karten hain tu wo ap ne us larke se nahe balke us ki khobsurti se mohabbat kiya hai aise mohabbat ziyada dair nahee rehte kal ko agr larke me wo khobsurte na rahe tu ap ki mohabbat bhe khatam ho jayege but jo dil se ki jaye tu wo marte dam tak zinda rehte haibut aj kal ke daur me bohat kam he aise log hain jo kise se true love karten hain khete tu hain ke hum mohabbat karten hain but wo mohabbat nahe attraction hote hai aur attraction me ziyada dair nahe rehte dosre person ke negetive point dehk kar aista aista wo attraction khatam ho jate hai is liye hum use mohabbat nahe khe sakte but true love ka attracion se koi taluq nahe hota jo SAche Mohabbat karte ahin unhe second person ki har burai achai lagte hai aur us ka pyar kabhi second person keliye khatam nahe hota....
Hmmm larke ur larki frnds hosakten hain aur thek bhe hai agr limits me reh kar kiya jaye aur ye tu qudrati har insan me hota hai ke boys girls ki taraf attract hoten hain aur girls boys ki taraf but boys me ye baat ziyada paye jate hai....agr sache dil se ek larki ko frnd ya koi larki ek larke ko frnd banana chahe tu is me koi harj nahe
bas dono ko apne apne limits me rehna chahiye.....
jin ko early age me yar hota hai agr wo teen age hai tu karna chahiye agr teen age se chota hai tu nahe karna chahiye kyun ke early age me insan ko itnw samaj nahe hote hai in sb baaton ki misaal karen ke ek early person second person se kheta hai ke me ap se pyaar karta hun ya karti hun jb use pyarr ka mtlb he pata nahe hoga tu unhe pyar kaise ho sakta hai ek dosre se wo pyar nahe hota sirf attraction hote hai jo bad me khatam ho jate hai jb both apni teenage ki umar tak ponchjaten hain but teenage ki umar me insan me itne akaql hote hin in sb batton kiaur wo sb samajta hai agr parents ki baat i jaye tu jb tak ap apne paon par khare na ho jaye nahe batana chahiye phele apne ap ko is qabil banaye ke ap jis se mohabbat karten hai use khush bhe rakh sakte hain ya nahe jb ap ko yakeen ho jaye aur ap ki age marriage karne wali ho jaye then ap apne parents ko batayen.....
jo sachi mohabbat karten hai wo apni mohabbat ka izkhar kar deten hai beghair kuch soche samjhe sirf ise dar se ke wo shaqs jin se ap love karte hai ap se dor na chala jaye aur wo is ka anjam kya hoga is ki bhe parwa nahe karte but jo attracton hote hai wo mohabbat ziyada dino tak tik nahe sakte aur jhote mohabbat karten hain wo bhw ziyada dair tak nahe tikta tue love is true love jis ne is ki qadar ki wo khush naseeb hai jis na nahe kiya us se ziyada basneseeb koi nahe kyun ke insan ko jeene kai liye pyar ki bhe zarroorat hote hai but aj kal ke daur me flirting ne mohabbat ko aisa badname kiya hua hai ke kise ko mohabbat par yakken nahe raha koi kise se sache mohabbat karta bhe hai tu second person use flirting samajta hai shayad yehe wajah hai kai ab sachi mohabbat ko bhe ghalat samja jata hai aur bahat kam log ab is par yakeen karten hain khetn hain na.....
LOVE IS TRUE
BUT NOT LOVERS
AJ KAL MOHABBAT KO IS TARAH BADNAME KIYA JA RAHA HAI SIRF UN LOGO KI WAJAH SE JO MOHABBAT KE NAME PAR FLIRTING KARTEN HAIN AUR EK DOSRE KO DHOKA DETEN HAIN......................
masha Allah bohot acha laga apke bare me jaan kar
sabse achi baat to ye lagi ke apne jinno ko dekha hai hame to bada shauq hai kabhi samna nahi hua.....kya hame aap unki kaifiat bata sakte hain k wo kya karte the kya kehte the kaise rehte the aur apne kaha k aap bohot darr k sath wahan zindagi guzare par apka wahan 9 saal tak rehna ye daleel hai k unhone apko kuch nuqsan nahi pahunchaya
masha Allah to apki ki nazar me love marraige sahi hai aur kaafi cheezen apne kahi jannat ki jhalak bhi miljati hai dono taraf se love rahe to.....thora aur wazahat kar ke kehden jinki shadi abhi nahi huyi unko kuch faida hojaye shayad hame hi hojaye
waise aap ye kis bina par kahe hain kya apke paas koi aisi misaal hai ya phir ye bas apka khayal hai
masha Allah bohot acha laga apke bare me jaan kar
sabse achi baat to ye lagi ke apne jinno ko dekha hai hame to bada shauq hai kabhi samna nahi hua.....kya hame aap unki kaifiat bata sakte hain k wo kya karte the kya kehte the kaise rehte the aur apne kaha k aap bohot darr k sath wahan zindagi guzare par apka wahan 9 saal tak rehna ye daleel hai k unhone apko kuch nuqsan nahi pahunchaya
Bro jino ne hame is liye nuqsaaan nahe paunchaya kyun ke hamare par dada ke pass jin the unho ne jin qaid kiye hue the unho ne chila kiya hua tha but unho ne jin ko azad karne ke liye ek shart rakhe the jin ke sath ke wo ek shart par jin ko azad karenge agr wo mere par dada ki agle jo nasal ayege jin unhe kbhi nuqsaan nahe paunchayenge tu jin ne un ki shart man le aur mere par dada ne jino ko azad kar diya......
is liye wo hamare sath rehte tu the leken nuqsaan nahe paunchate the aur un ki kahe suraten the ek shakal ke tu the nahe kbhi kis roop me a gaye tu kbhi kis roop me wo hamhe khete tu kuch nahe the but pore ghar par un ka qabza tha hamara upar wala portion bhe khale tha kahe saal se is liye wahan unhe nai wahan qabza kiya hua tha...haan ek dafa mere abu ke ek dost aye the aaur un ka beta tha chota tha tu jinopar hans raha tha un ka ka mazaq ura raha tha tu achanak jin ne ek zoordar slap mara us ke face par wo pareshan hogaya ke ye kis nai mara aur wo mujhe khene laga ke me nai mara use ye is liye hua kyun ke wo hamare nasal me se nahe tha...but jino ne kbhi nuqsaan nahe diya tha is liye hum kafi arsa wahan rahe nazar ate the kbhi ek aurat ki roop me tu ek bacha etc.....jaise he raat kai 12:00 baje jate raat ke tu un ke bache hamare upar wale portion mai khelne lag jate daily kbhi kbhi ajeeb kisam ki awazein nikal lete darane kai liye take hum wo ghar chor dein but hum ne nahe chora...but ab ALLLAH ka shukar hai wo ghar chor diya hai aur phr us ke bad koi jin nazar nahe aye but aj bhe jb me us ghar ke samne se guzarta hun tu dar lagta hai.......
masha Allah to apki ki nazar me love marraige sahi hai aur kaafi cheezen apne kahi jannat ki jhalak bhi miljati hai dono taraf se love rahe to.....thora aur wazahat kar ke kehden jinki shadi abhi nahi huyi unko kuch faida hojaye shayad hame hi hojaye
waise aap ye kis bina par kahe hain kya apke paas koi aisi misaal hai ya phir ye bas apka khayal hai[/QUOTE]
Bro sb se pheletu mai yehe kahunga kai shadi insan ko bohat soch samaj kar mtlb kai apna life partner soch samaj kar select karna chahiye........mai ne kahen aise couple dheken hain jin ki love marriage hua aur aj wo bohat khush hain aur jin ki arrange marriage hue wo bhe bohat khush hain bus both ke khayalat milne chahiye ye na ho ke larke ek city me rehne wali hoi aur rich ho aur larka middle class ka aur kise gao me rehta hu tu jb un dono kishadi hoge tu kya ap ko lagta hai kai wo ek dosre ko samaj payenge agr arrange marriage hue tu us larke ke khayalat asman ko chote hunge aur wo larka normal sochta hoga jb dono me understanding nahe hoge tu wo ek sath zindage kais guzarenge ap samaj gaye hunge ke m kya khena chahta hun but age yehe couple ki love marriage ho tu wo easily adjust karskten hain ek dosre ke sath jb ek inan love mai hota hai tu wo ye nahe sochta ke ye rich hai ya middle class use bas us kai sath zindage guzarne hote hai arrange marriage he bohat kamiyab hai leken phr bhe sahdi se phele un ke khayala ka jan lena acha rehta hai but love ki baat ki jaye tu us me ap kp sb phele se hi pata hota hai...
waise aap ye kis bina par kahe hain kya apke paas koi aisi misaal hai ya phir ye bas apka khayal hai
[/QUOTE]Bro sb se pheletu mai yehe kahunga kai shadi insan ko bohat soch samaj kar mtlb kai apna life partner soch samaj kar select karna chahiye........mai ne kahen aise couple dheken hain jin ki love marriage hua aur aj wo bohat khush hain aur jin ki arrange marriage hue wo bhe bohat khush hain bus both ke khayalat milne chahiye ye na ho ke larke ek city me rehne wali hoi aur rich ho aur larka middle class ka aur kise gao me rehta hu tu jb un dono kishadi hoge tu kya ap ko lagta hai kai wo ek dosre ko samaj payenge agr arrange marriage hue tu us larke ke khayalat asman ko chote hunge aur wo larka normal sochta hoga jb dono me understanding nahe hoge tu wo ek sath zindage kais guzarenge ap samaj gaye hunge ke m kya khena chahta hun but age yehe couple ki love marriage ho tu wo easily adjust karskten hain ek dosre ke sath jb ek inan love mai hota hai tu wo ye nahe sochta ke ye rich hai ya middle class use bas us kai sath zindage guzarne hote hai arrange marriage he bohat kamiyab hai leken phr bhe sahdi se phele un ke khayala ka jan lena acha rehta hai but love ki baat ki jaye tu us me ap kp sb phele se hi pata hota hai...
jinno k bare me jo apne kaha wo thora confusing hai
khair phir kabhi apse tafseeli guftugu hogi is bare me insha Allah
aur baat love marraige arrange marriage ki to ye bhi yahan chor dete hain baad me discuss karenge lekin hamari rai hai k har kaam karne se pehle shariat ko nazar me rakhe jisme hamare liye bhalayi hai
aap TM members ko kuch naseehat dena chahiye kuch kehana chahenge
aur bilkhusus hame kuch kehna chahenge
khair phir kabhi apse tafseeli guftugu hogi is bare me insha Allah
aur baat love marraige arrange marriage ki to ye bhi yahan chor dete hain baad me discuss karenge lekin hamari rai hai k har kaam karne se pehle shariat ko nazar me rakhe jisme hamare liye bhalayi hai
aap TM members ko kuch naseehat dena chahiye kuch kehana chahenge
aur bilkhusus hame kuch kehna chahenge
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