Changes in LIfe

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  1. Don

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    hey..

    Kuch log apni ko life ko change karnay ki koshish mein rehte hain chahe wo apni current life say kush ho ya na ho, or kuch log apni life ko change karnay k lie zada mehnaat nahi kartay chahe wo apni current life say kuch ho ya na ho.. aap kis category mein ate hain?

    or aap k khayal mein life change karnay ya na karnay ki main reason kia kia ho sakte hain??


     
  2. Pari

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    i think mai mai 2nd wali category se hoon...

    well mostly log apni life change karne ki jub try karte hai jub unko lagta hai k wo apni life main kuch galat karre hai chahe unhe use cheez se khushi milri hoo ya nahi.. or kuch log apni life dosro k liye change kardete hai j-se koi unk bht qareeb hoo..
     
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    i m also in 2nd category
    log apni life tub change kerne ka irada kerte hein jub wo sochte hein k ab life buhat boring ho gai hai koch new kerna chahiyay or koch serious mistakes k bad may log sochte hein k ab wo ye kam nahe karain gay
    or i think life may changes kerte rehna chaiyay
     
  4. RedRose64

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    first of all nice topic Don

    may dono categories say agree karongi

    1 say is liye coz
    apni current life change karne ki ziyada koshish wohi kar skataa hai jisay feel ho k wo ghalat kamo ki taraf ja raha hai..yah chala bhi gaya hai..lakin us ka dil mutamin nahi rehta..tub wo her mumkin koshish kar k apnay dil o dimagh ko sakon dene k liye her mumkin KOSHISH karta hai k wo apni life ko change karay

    2 say is liye agree karongi coz

    koch log aisay hotay hain jo bas sochtay hain k life boring ho gai hai..thora change lanaa chaiyay..change aa jay to aa jay warna wo apni daily routein per chaltay rhete hain..as such koi khas mehnut nahi kartay..

    so dono say he may agree karongi
     
  5. Don

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    thanks for the reply.. anyone else?
     
  6. Sabah

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    yaha per aapne life changing k saath 2 our options bhi de hain k chahe kosh hu ya na ho...
    toh pahle mai es baat ko clear kerna chahungi k koi bhi Insan aapne happy life ko for sure change nahin kerna chahega ager life ko change kerne ki koi wajah hugi toh voh yeh hugi k voh aapne life se na khosh hai our voh es life ko better bana ne k lie changes kerne ki koshish kerte hain yeh zaroor kah sakte hain k chahe yeh mumkin ho ya na ho but change kerne ki puri koshish kerte hain...
    toh mai enhe logu mei se hu joh current life ko change kerne ki koshish kerte hu may be koi changes na aye but koshish kersakte hain ....
     
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    Well i think K insaan apni Life ko to nhi change kar sakta bt apny ap ko change zroor kar sakta hy....(mery khayal main apny ap ko or apni life ko change krna donu Different things hain...).....Life main insan sy related pora Envoirment aa jata hy or bht kam insaan hain jo apny sath apna pora envoirment change karny ki salahiyat rakhty hain....So most of times Insaan ko TIME change karta hy...
    Like me main ny aaj tak apni sirf aik cheezz chnage ki hy.......Nd TIME changes Me thousands Of times....So in Short Word k insan ko hud or us ki life Ko Time Change karta hy............{(popcorn)}
     
  8. Don

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    @ Sabah.. i am not really agree.. your point was good tho..
    the thing is... har insaan ki fitrat hai MORE ki... us ko chahe jitna bhi kuch bhi mill gaye wo OR ki pehche bhagta hai... us ki piyaas kabhi nahi bhoojti.. even agar wo kush ho apni life say to wo us ko or behter banane ki souchta hai... or isi chakkar may wo changes lanay ki souchta hai...

    and yes people always look for something better, including me...

    @ lightman ... apnay ap ko change karna ya apni life ko change karnay may mujhe zada koi farq nazer nai aya.... kiun k insaaan agar apnay ap ko change karta hai to us ki life kudh ba kudh change ho jati hai.. or agar life ko change karta hai to wo bhi kudh change ho jata hai.... or rahi baat time ki to mere khayal may TIME to i guess you are pretty much right... laykin is may bhi wohi bat ajati hai k ap time k hisaab say apnay ap ko change karte ho.. time sirf ap ko guide karta hai...
     
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    Very well said redrose..
     
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    ہر انسان خود كو بدلنا چاہتا ہے بدلنے سے مراد خود كو دوسرے سے بالاتر دیكھنا چاہتا ہے لیكن بہت كم ایسا ہوتا ہے
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  11. Sabah

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    well yeh toh her insan k soch our uske life pe depend kerta hai
    sub ki life ek jaise nahin huti our na he unke zarooryat...
     
  12. Don

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    now i agree with you... by the way.. thanks for sharing your thoughts with us...
    i will be looking forward to hear more from other people.


    Thanks
     
  13. waqas naseer

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    catagory no.2
     
  14. nrbhayo

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    nice sharing
     

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