Need An Openion

zaryaab said:

Assalam o alaikum !
i need ur openions ..as some of u know tht recently i have completed my BSC engineering ..
now onwards ..
my father want to do MS nd further studies like PHD ..
my mum want to stop studies she says "bus apna demagh aur mat khaa" itna parh leyai is pai aap achi se nokari karkai ek better social life guzaar saktai ho ..<3 lovely mums
and i want to jump into practical life just want to get rid of those heavy books ..
mai field job karungaa jis k leyai experience ki zaroorat hoge ..
mujhai koe lecturer ,professor nahi banna jo PHD aur MS karta phiro ..
but practical life hard hogee nd m not tht much mature or strong adult young to face those hurdles..

now m stuck ..kya karo kya na karo ..

@Ally . @Hoorain , @Syeda-Hilya . @Guriya_Rani . @AnadiL . @saviou , @Shiraz-Khan . @muttalib . @Aks_ . @Parisa_ . . @shehr-e-tanhayi . @Authentic_Sitara

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waalaikum assalam
In my opinion Studies continue rkhain sath may practical life b shuroo kr lain jab tak studies complete hogi aap experience b gain kar chukke hogey aur Mature b ho jaogey k business waghera k hawale se behtar decisions le sakko!!
Wish u all the best

Boss .. simple solution ha ...
Ap practical kru . this would give u a break from academics .. In a year or two you would want to come back towards studies tub aap apna proposal bnao for Phd.
Per wu itna acha bnao k apko direct MS k bijaye Phd mein admission miley. Phd ka faida ya hu ga k aap practical with academics side by side kr sku ga. Abroad krty hu tu well n good coz waha ap apney hisab sa sb set kr skty .. Pak mein though itni leniency nahi huti so u would have to be careful but strategic as well. Find out a way where u can get the best of both worlds.. Jaha ap beh satisfied hu aur apkey parents bhe khush hu. Coz khud ko ksi bhe path pa force kr k sivaye khawari k kch nahi milna. So Just choose something which makes u happy .. parents ki khushi olaad ki khushi mein huti so even if u choose something that doesn't satisfy ur parents then .. prove to them by being happy and satisfied that ur choice wasn't wrong. This way nobody will have any regrets... TOO YOUNG TO HAVE REGRETS U KNOW

Oh and about maturity dude jab bandey pa parti ha tu sb seekh jatey hein .. so don't think of it as an issue.

If I were you, I would continue my studies. You have a full life to job job or business, but studies ke leeye aek khas time hota hae, don't let it slip from your hands. Right now you are in a right frame of mind for studies, this can change once you enter practical life.

I completed my software development engineering a year ago and started a job, one of my professors wanted me to do PhD but instead I accepted the job. Now I really need to pull myself together to get in the right frame of mind for further studies.

zaryaab said:

Assalam o alaikum !
i need ur openions ..as some of u know tht recently i have completed my BSC engineering ..
now onwards ..
my father want to do MS nd further studies like PHD ..
my mum want to stop studies she says "bus apna demagh aur mat khaa" itna parh leyai is pai aap achi se nokari karkai ek better social life guzaar saktai ho ..<3 lovely mums
and i want to jump into practical life just want to get rid of those heavy books ..
mai field job karungaa jis k leyai experience ki zaroorat hoge ..
mujhai koe lecturer ,professor nahi banna jo PHD aur MS karta phiro ..
but practical life hard hogee nd m not tht much mature or strong adult young to face those hurdles..

now m stuck ..kya karo kya na karo ..

@Ally . @Hoorain , @Syeda-Hilya . @Guriya_Rani . @AnadiL . @saviou , @Shiraz-Khan . @muttalib . @Aks_ . @Parisa_ . . @shehr-e-tanhayi . @Authentic_Sitara

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WS..
Bro Masterz zaror kerna aap... baki PHD ki dekhi jaeygi... bcz job me Masterz ki degree ki need hoti hey....

zaryaab said:

Assalam o alaikum !
i need ur openions ..as some of u know tht recently i have completed my BSC engineering ..
now onwards ..
my father want to do MS nd further studies like PHD ..
my mum want to stop studies she says "bus apna demagh aur mat khaa" itna parh leyai is pai aap achi se nokari karkai ek better social life guzaar saktai ho ..<3 lovely mums
and i want to jump into practical life just want to get rid of those heavy books ..
mai field job karungaa jis k leyai experience ki zaroorat hoge ..
mujhai koe lecturer ,professor nahi banna jo PHD aur MS karta phiro ..
but practical life hard hogee nd m not tht much mature or strong adult young to face those hurdles..

now m stuck ..kya karo kya na karo ..

@Ally . @Hoorain , @Syeda-Hilya . @Guriya_Rani . @AnadiL . @saviou , @Shiraz-Khan . @muttalib . @Aks_ . @Parisa_ . . @shehr-e-tanhayi . @Authentic_Sitara

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Wa Alaykum Assalam Wrwb
bro Ilm ki bohot ahmiyat hai chahe wo duniyawi hi kyun na ho
haan hamare liye awwaleen darja deeni ilm ko dena chahiye

chunke yahan duniyawi ilm ki baat ho rahi hai to iske muttaliq hi kahenge ke aap parhai continue karen aur sath me job ya business field work jo bhi karna chahte hain karen

koshish karen dono ko sath leke chalne ki is se tajruba bhi hoga maturity bhi ajayegi aur Ammi Abbu dono ko bhi khush kar sakenge

Hoorain said:

waalaikum assalam
In my opinion Studies continue rkhain sath may practical life b shuroo kr lain jab tak studies complete hogi aap experience b gain kar chukke hogey aur Mature b ho jaogey k business waghera k hawale se behtar decisions le sakko!!
Wish u all the best

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bilkul agreed
reply karne k baad apka post parhe to hairat huyi k wohi baten ham ne bhi likhi hain

saviou said:

bilkul agreed
reply karne k baad apka post parhe to hairat huyi k wohi baten ham ne bhi likhi hain

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hain,, aap kitna mere jesa sochte ho

Hoorain said:

hain,, aap kitna mere jesa sochte ho

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jee buzurgon k naqshe qadam par chalte hain

zaryaab said:

jazakallah khairan for helping me out .very nice openions..brothers nd sis ..i will think over it .nd will take a good decision ..jo merai leyai bhi behtar ho as well as for my parents ..pray 4 me .. >3

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aap istekhara karen do rakat namaz parhen aur Allah se dua karen k jo apke liye behtar ho wo raasta asaan karen aur in sha Allah apko zaroor rehnumai milegi apne rabb ki taraf se

zaryaab said:

haa ye baat bilkul sahi hai aapki ..actually mai kuch aur sochnaa chaah raha ta dnt knw yaha bataana chaheyai ya nahi ..mai job karnai k baad elam haasil karna chahta hun ..means job itnai waqt k leyai karoo k usai invest karlo aur pir araam se mai aur mera deeni elam ,,plzz pray 4 me

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Ma Sha Allah bohot achi soch hai aap ki aur ham dua karte hain ke Allah apko isme kamiyab kare Aameen
deeni taleem bohot zaroori hai bro khud apne liye aur apne ghar walon k liye bhi

aap jab iska pakka irada karen to ham se zaroor discuss karen hame khushi hogi apko isme rehnumai karne me

zaryaab said:

in sha allah zarooor ! my mum says dunyaawi taleem itni haasil karo k better social life guzaar lo ..ye duniya chand roz ki hai ..akhrat k leyai bhi kuch karlo ..is MS uar phd ki jaga elam hasil karlo ..so mai ne yahi decide kiya ..mai baat karta hun apnai father se k koe job dhoond lai dubai ya saudi mai ..takai jald apnai maqsad ki taraf bhar sakoo .. u knw time z very short aur mujhai kaafi aagai jaana ...deen mai duniya mai nahi ..

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jee agar deeni ilm k liye aap tarjhi den toye sab se zyada behtar hai
apke father saudi me rehte hain?

W slaaam

Papa is always right

Apney papa ki bat man ley ,,phd kriye