Akhir Kiun??????must Read,,,,,

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Parents to khair behtari hi chahte hain...sometimes lrkiyan b jaldbazi aur jazbatiyat may aise steps leti hain..talaq aik chota issue nho hy Allah ko halal chezon may sab se napasand hy to ehtyat krni chahiye boys n girls dono ko...baqi khudkushi koi option nhi counselling ki kami ka nateja hy..lrkiyo ko apni jld baaz fitrat ko thora control krna chahiye ab to waise b sab educated hain..Allah tala sabko apne hifz o aman may rkhain aameen...
bilkul mai agree karti hun ap ki bat se,,,lekin abi b just 10/% he larkiyan aesi hain jin k walden talaq k mamle mai unhe sport karte hain,,,warna to moslty yehi kehte hain k jo b hai jesa b hai wohe tumhara ghar hai,,ab marne k bad he tum us ghar se nikal sakti ho......its reallty pher orat k pas 2nd opt khudkushi he rah jati hai,
 

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in sab ka zumdar ghar waly nahi hotay yeh to Qudrat ka ik Hikmat hy,
maa baap to yeh chahty hien shyed un ka beta samjh jye
magar un ko kya pata hota hy k jis larki se woh apne bety ki shadi kerwa rahy hien woh un k bety se 2 hath agy hy
beta to nasha ker k khud ko is qabil banata hy k jee skay
magar baho to direct mar gye
 
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True masharyi aur mazhabi counselling honi chahiye is hawale se...
she have to many options ..
eidhi center ,alot of trusts ..etc aur agar wo educated hai to pir to wo kisi grils hostel mai reh kar khud ko paal sakti hai aur agar bachai ho sath mai to ghar waalai agar support na karai to kisi relative kai haa kuch waqt kai leyai panah lai ya kisi trust mai aur job karkai wo khud ghar bhi lai sakti hai jaha wo bacho kai sath ek kamyab life guzar sakti hai ..

sub se pehlai to reshtaa ..
achi tarah chaan been kar reshta kiya jaayai ...shaadi karna sunnat hai farz nahi ..
us cheez se behtar hai kai bhoj samjh kar janwaro ki tarah kisi ko sonp dai ..
laiken agar reshta ho bhi gaya aur susraal lalachi nekla ..magar agar humsafar laalchi aur nashaawar nekla ..pehali to bewi usai samjhayai usai raah e rast pai laayai ..but agar pir bhi larki ki ana, ezzat e nafs ko rondha jaayai to usi waqt bewi ko alag hona chaheyai na kai taizaab phainknai aur jalnai ka intezaar karai ..aur sub se bewaqufaana faisla "khudkushi" yani ye duniya bhi jahannum aur wo duniya bhi azaab !!

sister ye bht long long topic hai bht saarai pehloo is mai aaengai ..
bus asal problem "islam se doori " jub tak ye problem hal na ho kuch teek nahi hoga ..
 

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Parents to khair behtari hi chahte hain...sometimes lrkiyan b jaldbazi aur jazbatiyat may aise steps leti hain..talaq aik chota issue nho hy Allah ko halal chezon may sab se napasand hy to ehtyat krni chahiye boys n girls dono ko...baqi khudkushi koi option nhi counselling ki kami ka nateja hy..lrkiyo ko apni jld baaz fitrat ko thora control krna chahiye ab to waise b sab educated hain..Allah tala sabko apne hifz o aman may rkhain aameen...
han bilkul thek kaha apne,,,


summa amen
 
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in sab ka zumdar ghar waly nahi hotay yeh to Qudrat ka ik Hikmat hy,
maa baap to yeh chahty hien shyed un ka beta samjh jye
magar un ko kya pata hota hy k jis larki se woh apne bety ki shadi kerwa rahy hien woh un k bety se 2 hath agy hy
beta to nasha ker k khud ko is qabil banata hy k jee skay
magar baho to direct mar gye
lekin larki kia kare,,,jab wo nashe ka adi mard use mare pite us se pese mange????
 

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lekin larki kia kare,,,jab wo nashe ka adi mard use mare pite us se pese mange????
Allah pe BElive Rakhy
main to sirf yahi kaho ga
wese bat yeh dukh ki hy
yeh bat aam hy
magar ager larki sakoon main nahi to marne ki bijye alehdgi aktyar ker lay
aur dosri bat ji larkiyaan shadi k bad malzmat kerti hein un ki sab se bari yeh hi galti hoti hy
k woh job karti hien
haa ager ghar shohar b kam kerta hy
aur kharcha pura nahi hota tangdasti bharti ja rahi hy
to phir ker lay
is ka mujhe nahi pata
magar ager shohar nacha kerta ho
to us ka hal yeh hy us ko pehly samjha jye k kiyo kerta hy
us k bad us ko smjhya jya aur woh wajohat khatm ki jyein
ager na baz aye phir alehda ho jye mout nahi gawara kerni chahiye
Allah Rahm Kary us pe
Aur hum pe b is trha k halat any se
 
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Allah pe BElive Rakhy
main to sirf yahi kaho ga
wese bat yeh dukh ki hy
yeh bat aam hy
magar ager larki sakoon main nahi to marne ki bijye alehdgi aktyar ker lay
aur dosri bat ji larkiyaan shadi k bad malzmat kerti hein un ki sab se bari yeh hi galti hoti hy
k woh job karti hien
haa ager ghar shohar b kam kerta hy
aur kharcha pura nahi hota tangdasti bharti ja rahi hy
to phir ker lay
is ka mujhe nahi pata
magar ager shohar nacha kerta ho
to us ka hal yeh hy us ko pehly samjha jye k kiyo kerta hy
us k bad us ko smjhya jya aur woh wajohat khatm ki jyein
ager na baz aye phir alehda ho jye mout nahi gawara kerni chahiye
Allah Rahm Kary us pe
Aur hum pe b is trha k halat any se
thek kaha apne,,,lekin ap b asi mashre mai rehte hain yahan talaq yafta orton ko log kis nazar se dekhte hain u know,pher wohe bat k us ki behno k rishte nai ate k behan ghar nai basa saki to choti kese basae gi????as k bare mai kia kahen ge?
 

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thek kaha apne,,,lekin ap b asi mashre mai rehte hain yahan talaq yafta orton ko log kis nazar se dekhte hain u know,pher wohe bat k us ki behno k rishte nai ate k behan ghar nai basa saki to choti kese basae gi????as k bare mai kia kahen ge?
yeh ik na-shukri hy
Talaq yafta aurtein ap ne woh dekhi hein jo zamana main houn aur jin ko Allah pe kam yaqeen ho
main ne aysi aortein b dekhi hien jo talaq yafta hein magar puri zindgi parda main guzar dyti hien
mahool tab kharab hota hy jab aourat ki tarif se lachak ho
 

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SAB MAZBOT NAI HOTIN...
main manta houn
magar mari bat suenin
yeh sab larki k ghar walo ki problem hoti hy
woh keh dyty hien hamare ghar na ana wapis mar jana
larki to bechari hoti hy kamzoor hein main manta houn
magar ap ko pata hy jab ik larki kisi larke k ghar shadi k bad khudkashi ker lay to kya asar hota hy
us ki ik zindgi ki waja se kitne logo ki zindgi barbad ho skti hy
pehly to larki k ghar waly dukh se nadhal hoty hien
dobara ager woh larke walo pe parcha karwa dein k unhoun ne mari hy
to ap ko pata hy kitni zindiya barbad hoti hien
yeh larki k ghar walo ki problem hy
ager larka acha nahi to apne ghar batha lyty ya koi aur rishta dhoond lyty
aur raha larkay k ghar walo ki bat to woh to shadi is liye kerty hein k larka sudhar jye shyed shadi k bad
farz karein ager ap ka bhai koi hota jo nashy k adi hota
ap her mumkin koshish krti k woh is adit say baaz aa jeyin
isi trha larke k ghar waly b yahi chaty houn gay
magar ager larki shadi k bad larke say b zayadah buzdil ho to ap ko pata hy is k natijay main kitni zindgiyaan barbad hoti hien
ap ko andaza hy koi
behtir hal yeh hi hy aledgi
 
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main manta houn
magar mari bat suenin
yeh sab larki k ghar walo ki problem hoti hy
woh keh dyty hien hamare ghar na ana wapis mar jana
larki to bechari hoti hy kamzoor hein main manta houn
magar ap ko pata hy jab ik larki kisi larke k ghar shadi k bad khudkashi ker lay to kya asar hota hy
us ki ik zindgi ki waja se kitne logo ki zindgi barbad ho skti hy
pehly to larki k ghar waly dukh se nadhal hoty hien
dobara ager woh larke walo pe parcha karwa dein k unhoun ne mari hy
to ap ko pata hy kitni zindiya barbad hoti hien
yeh larki k ghar walo ki problem hy
ager larka acha nahi to apne ghar batha lyty ya koi aur rishta dhoond lyty
aur raha larkay k ghar walo ki bat to woh to shadi is liye kerty hein k larka sudhar jye shyed shadi k bad
farz karein ager ap ka bhai koi hota jo nashy k adi hota
ap her mumkin koshish krti k woh is adit say baaz aa jeyin
isi trha larke k ghar waly b yahi chaty houn gay
magar ager larki shadi k bad larke say b zayadah buzdil ho to ap ko pata hy is k natijay main kitni zindgiyaan barbad hoti hien
ap ko andaza hy koi
behtir hal yeh hi hy aledgi


hmmm lekin bat pher wahin ajati hai k jin larkiyon ki choti behne hoti hain wo koshish karti hain k talaq na ho unhe q k unki behno k rishte nai ate,,,mai ye sab mamla apne aek bohat qaribi rishte daron mai dekh chuki hun,,,,bad mai ma bap dukh mai mar jate hain ye b sach hai
 

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hmmm lekin bat pher wahin ajati hai k jin larkiyon ki choti behne hoti hain wo koshish karti hain k talaq na ho unhe q k unki behno k rishte nai ate,,,mai ye sab mamla apne aek bohat qaribi rishte daron mai dekh chuki hun,,,,bad mai ma bap dukh mai mar jate hain ye b sach hai
acha to ap ko kya lgta hy us k khudkashi ki waja se un ki shadi ho jati hy
dekhien na to phir un k behno ki shadi jaldi hoti hy
na larke walo main
kiyo k logh darty hien
k yeh b apni behn ki trha na ho
jo mar jye aur hamre ser pary
aur jo larke ki tarif hota hy
un ko koi rishta nahi dyta
halanke qasoor ik ka hota hy
aur saza be-qasooroun ko milti hy
us lakrey ka kya woh to pehly hi nisahy main dhoba hy aur dhoob jaye ga
is k liye larki ko himat rakhni ho gi
kiyo ager b.v ager achi ho to us ko pata hota hy k us ka shohar kis trha badal skta hy
baqi ager b.v hi himat har jye to larkay ka kiya woh to pehly hi nashy main dhoba howa hy
aur dhoob jye ga
marein gay to us k ghar waly
in mamloun main larki ko himat dekhani chiye
warna is trha ki khudkashi ki khudkash dhamke ka kaam kerti hy
k apni jaan to gye sath dosre ko jeetay jee mar jana
 

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acha to ap ko kya lgta hy us k khudkashi ki waja se un ki shadi ho jati hy
dekhien na to phir un k behno ki shadi jaldi hoti hy
na larke walo main
kiyo k logh darty hien
k yeh b apni behn ki trha na ho
jo mar jye aur hamre ser pary
aur jo larke ki tarif hota hy
un ko koi rishta nahi dyta
halanke qasoor ik ka hota hy
aur saza be-qasooroun ko milti hy
us lakrey ka kya woh to pehly hi nisahy main dhoba hy aur dhoob jaye ga
is k liye larki ko himat rakhni ho gi
kiyo ager b.v ager achi ho to us ko pata hota hy k us ka shohar kis trha badal skta hy
baqi ager b.v hi himat har jye to larkay ka kiya woh to pehly hi nashy main dhoba howa hy
aur dhoob jye ga
marein gay to us k ghar waly
in mamloun main larki ko himat dekhani chiye
warna is trha ki khudkashi ki khudkash dhamke ka kaam kerti hy
k apni jaan to gye sath dosre ko jeetay jee mar jana
u r 100% right,,,,lekin larkiyan himat he to nai karti na,,,yehi to masla hai sab se bara
 

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u r 100% right,,,,lekin larkiyan himat he to nai karti na,,,yehi to masla hai sab se bara
larki k ghar walo ko himat dekhani chahiye
main ne dekha hy aur main ne is trha k mamlat b dekhy hien
ager larki lar k aa jati hy ya larka koi istrha ki adat main ho
to larki k ghar waly keh dyty hien k jao un k ghar ja k mar jao
hamre pas na aao
magar jab woh mar jati hy to phir us ka tamasha bana k larke k ghar walo ki zindgi b jahnum bana dyty hien
main ne kai asya mamlat dekhy hien
na to us larke ko kush hota hy na larki k ghar walo
magar larki k sath marty hien to sif us larkay k ghar waly
 
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larki k ghar walo ko himat dekhani chahiye
main ne dekha hy aur main ne is trha k mamlat b dekhy hien
ager larki lar k aa jati hy ya larka koi istrha ki adat main ho
to larki k ghar waly keh dyty hien k jao un k ghar ja k mar jao
hamre pas na aao
magar jab woh mar jati hy to phir us ka tamasha bana k larke k ghar walo ki zindgi b jahnum bana dyty hien
main ne kai asya mamlat dekhy hien
na to us larke ko kush hota hy na larki k ghar walo
magar larki k sath marty hien to sif us larkay k ghar waly
thek kaha apne
 
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