Assalam-O-Alikum!
Mein na apney pichley thread pa TM k issues k barey mein pocha tah aap sab sa. Sab k jawabat parhney k baad ab mein apna point of view ap logo ko bata rahi. Per btaney sa pehla ya beh bta du k mein srf apna point of view bata rahi. Ksi ki tayid ya tardid nahi kr rhi na hi ksi ko apni han mein han ya naa mein na milaney ko keh rahi.
1st issue: Daily 5 se 7 log join krty TM phr un mai se 1 adh nzr ata 2,3 din aur phr kbi nahi nazr ata.
My view: Idk kaha pa mein na ya suna tah k “Things grow on you with time”, but ha ya sach. Tu TM ka beh kuch aisa hi scene ha. Shru mein aisa hi huta hum 2 ya 3 din atey oper oper sa sb dekhta aur phir chaley jatey. Hur aik ka different point of view huta. Kuch ko lgta k ya forum friendly ha, kuch ko lgta k ya bht biased aur selfish ha. As I said hur aik k dekhna ka nazariya mukhtalif huta. Ju shru mein 1 ya 2 dost bhe bna lein yaha wu wapis atey zaror hein. Ju na bhe dost bnayein wu beh atey hein. Hum mein sa bohot sa log wakt k sath facebook aur baki social media sa tng aa jatey. Phir humein us environment sa rahayi chahiya huti. Lekin tub tuk hamein online aney ka itna chuska pur chuka huta k phir hum TM pa atey time pass krny. Tu aisa bilkul mut sochiya k TM pa koi kabhi dubara nazar nahi ata. Q k log wapis atey hein zarori nahi k wu online nazar ayein. Zarori nahi k wu threads pa likes ya comments krty hu nazar ayein. Per atey wu zaror hein. Aur jaha tuk joining ki baat ha tu bohot sa log yaha per poetry ki wjah sa join krty. Mein na khud poetry ko hi dekh kr join kia tah.
2nd issue: TM biased environment ha.
My view: Depend krta k apki ‘biased’ ki definition kia ha. Mein isey biasness nahi kahu gi, per TM pa age issue tuhra sa ata ha. Jin logo na age nahi btayi hui wu tu matter nahi krta but jinhu na age btayi hui ju k 30 – 40 range krti tu unko koi itni ghas nahi dalta. Mainly TM users teenage till 30’s k age group mein huty. Tu jab koi 40’s wala thread lgata tu chahey thread kitna hi acha q na hu koi itna dehan nahi deta us per. Aur I think uski bari reason conciousness huti, coz aisa ksi bandey ki thread pa comment krty hua bunda concious hu jata k pta nahi kia sochay ga thread owner.
Dusra ya k TM personal issues ki jgah nahi ha. Hur koi yaha enjoy krny ata. Mein khud ati hu tu mood set krny ati hu ya hula gulla krny ya sb ko tung krny. Tu jab hur koi ataa hi iss liya tu I don’t think why somebody should hold grudges against anyone. Na tu yaha per ego issues huney chahiya na hi koi aur personal issue. TM apney aap mein aik dunia ha tu usko enjoy kru na ap sab. Hur dunia mein dunia walo k bnaye hua rules bhe huty. Ab iss kaiynat ko dekh lijiya, aap sab Islam ki batein krty tu ya jahan beh tu Allah k bnaye hua rules pa chaalo ha na. Agr wu rules na hu tu sooraj raat k wakt nikly aur chaand subah k wakt. Phir hum insano ko dekh lijiya hum bhe apney liya rules bnatey, k hum na kaisa jeena… kis wakt sona .. kis wakt jagna .. kaisa rehna etc etc. Tu TM beh aisa hi ha rules k daiyre k ander reh kr jeena zaida behtar ha banisbat unko continuously torney k q k hum tor tu detay rules per unka consequences nahi jantey hum. Agr kahein per koi rule ha tu ksi wajah sa hi ha na. Aisa hi tu koi “Beware” ka sign nahi lga deta huta.
3rd issue: TM pa banda bore huta. Kuch hi log yaha nazar atey, wuhi dominant hein aur unhi k posts view kiya jatey aur unhi sa batein ki jati.
My view: TM pa popular huney ka aik raaz mein btana bhol gyi aur wu ha TM ko smujhna, uskey barey mein passionate feel krna, waha pa logo ko smjhna. Srf oper oper sa judge krna hur aik ko bohot asan huta, baat ki aur logo ki teho k ander jaa kr unko janna aur phir opinion banana mushkil huta q k koi bhe insan dusrey ko itni asani sa apney qareeb nahi aney deta. Shru mein jab mein ati the tu mein bhe bore huti the smjh nahi ati the kia kru, friends huney k bavajud mein bore huti the. Per ahista ahista jaisa jaisa mein na TM ko jana tu ya jana k yaha pa paye janey waley log ziada original hein. Shayid uski wjah ya beh ha k yaha bohot sa log different countries mein huty aur bahir k mulku mein koi image conscious nahi huty usey ya dur nahi huta k log kia kahein ga. Tu TM mein bhe ksi ko image conscious nahi dekha mein na. Isey wjah sa unhein kuch chupaney ki zarorat nai mehsos huti. Wu jaisa huty waisa hi bunty bhe hein. Shayid ap different opinion rkhty hu but as I said na mein apki tayid ya tardeed kr rhi na apko apni han mein han milaney ko keh rhi. Jaha tuk dominance ki baat ha tu jinab ju TM ko janta ha uskey barey mein passionate ha tu wu aata beh ha, betahasha dost bhe banata ha, enjoy bhe krta ha. Ziada social cycle huney ko agr ap dominance ka naam detay tu wuhi sahi. Jaha tuk mein janti tu bht sa log yaha ksi aur k tavasut sa aye huty ya shayri wageira k liya join krty. Tu wu TM k liya itney passionate nahi huty. Passionate tu wu huty ju roz apko yaha kuch na kuch kaam krty nazar atey. And hats off to them because it is a big responsibility jis ko wu khush aslobi sa nibhatey q k unko ya koi zimidari ya bujh nahi lgta. Wu khud aisa krna psnd krty.
4th issue: Larkey itna nahi atey , larkiya hi hur jagah nazar ati.
My view: Tu mujhy smjh nahi ati k larkey larko k mizaj ko q nahi smjhty? Larkey teenage group ju ha they are more into games, girls, cricket and at the end studies. Aur farig time mein wu dosto k sath phir rahey huty ya aisa kuch. Aur dusra group 18 onwards huta aur wu basically job kr rhy huty ya phir apni future planning wu na hu tu exams.. they actually have a life. I am sorry to say but Pakistani larkio ki life restricted huti tuhri. Wu purhti hein aur phir unki maou ko huta k chalo g meri beti ghur k kaam sham sekh la tu wu phir wu bhe sekh rahi huti, ya phir jobs kr rhi huti. Tu unka pas ju farig time huta tu wu phir TM ya FB pa hi guzarti mostly. Tu isey liya larkiya ziada nazar ati. Larko ko itni purva nahi huti. Tu agr apko larko wageira ko active krna tu dudes… uskey liya apko aur users nahi chahiya na hi ap unko lambey lambey lecture pila kr TM ka fan bnva skty no. You have to make them passionate about TM. But plz no lectures.. us sa wu bhag jayein ga.
5th issue: TM staff arrogant ha.
My view: Muadabana guzarish ha k aap ksi ka mizaj nahi badal skty. Apna mizaj hur koi khud budlta ha. Tu dusru k mizaj budlny k bijaye ap khud ko hi itna acha bna lein k agla ap ko achi nazar sa dekhna pa majboor hu jaye. Khud ko itna acha buna lein k agla ap k ravaiye mein koi khami na duhnd paye. Itney acha k apkey sath hur koi acha hu jaye. Aur Allah sa dua kriya, umeedain lgani hein tu Allah sa lgayein. Q k wuhi izat deta beh ha aur leta bhe ha. Allah sa dua krein k wu dusru k dil aur zehn apkey liya khol da. Ap sb ko aik dusrey ko smjhny ki taufeek ataa frma. Hum insan aik dusrey k ravaiye dekhta rehta per khud k ander bohot kum jahnktey hein. Dusru ki harkatou ko question krty per apney ravaiye ko nazar andaz krty. Hum kabhi dusrey ko smjhny ki koshish nahi krty. Apni rut lgaye rkhty. Aur ju smjhty bhe hein wu dusrey ko smjha nahi paatey. Iss wajah sa bohot sa clashes hu jatey. Rishtey bnana asan huta nibhana mushkil. Insaniyat k barey mein batein krna asan huta, usko qayim rkhna mushkil. Naiki ap ki count huti ha chahey wu phir ap ghur pa krein ya online ya phir kahein bhe. Apney ird gird beh dehan dein, itney bayakeen mut hu jayein k apney ird gird sa bekhabar hu jayein.
P.S. Ratings k liya bohot kum log care krty aur ju krty wu bhe iss liya krty q k unhu na mehnat ki huti.
LOL Bohot bol liya na
… ap sab bhe kehta hu ga kia pakao larki ha jan hi nahi chorti … Chalo maaf kia Ja putar jee la apni zindagi… Parhney k liya shukriya
Mein na apney pichley thread pa TM k issues k barey mein pocha tah aap sab sa. Sab k jawabat parhney k baad ab mein apna point of view ap logo ko bata rahi. Per btaney sa pehla ya beh bta du k mein srf apna point of view bata rahi. Ksi ki tayid ya tardid nahi kr rhi na hi ksi ko apni han mein han ya naa mein na milaney ko keh rahi.
1st issue: Daily 5 se 7 log join krty TM phr un mai se 1 adh nzr ata 2,3 din aur phr kbi nahi nazr ata.
My view: Idk kaha pa mein na ya suna tah k “Things grow on you with time”, but ha ya sach. Tu TM ka beh kuch aisa hi scene ha. Shru mein aisa hi huta hum 2 ya 3 din atey oper oper sa sb dekhta aur phir chaley jatey. Hur aik ka different point of view huta. Kuch ko lgta k ya forum friendly ha, kuch ko lgta k ya bht biased aur selfish ha. As I said hur aik k dekhna ka nazariya mukhtalif huta. Ju shru mein 1 ya 2 dost bhe bna lein yaha wu wapis atey zaror hein. Ju na bhe dost bnayein wu beh atey hein. Hum mein sa bohot sa log wakt k sath facebook aur baki social media sa tng aa jatey. Phir humein us environment sa rahayi chahiya huti. Lekin tub tuk hamein online aney ka itna chuska pur chuka huta k phir hum TM pa atey time pass krny. Tu aisa bilkul mut sochiya k TM pa koi kabhi dubara nazar nahi ata. Q k log wapis atey hein zarori nahi k wu online nazar ayein. Zarori nahi k wu threads pa likes ya comments krty hu nazar ayein. Per atey wu zaror hein. Aur jaha tuk joining ki baat ha tu bohot sa log yaha per poetry ki wjah sa join krty. Mein na khud poetry ko hi dekh kr join kia tah.
2nd issue: TM biased environment ha.
My view: Depend krta k apki ‘biased’ ki definition kia ha. Mein isey biasness nahi kahu gi, per TM pa age issue tuhra sa ata ha. Jin logo na age nahi btayi hui wu tu matter nahi krta but jinhu na age btayi hui ju k 30 – 40 range krti tu unko koi itni ghas nahi dalta. Mainly TM users teenage till 30’s k age group mein huty. Tu jab koi 40’s wala thread lgata tu chahey thread kitna hi acha q na hu koi itna dehan nahi deta us per. Aur I think uski bari reason conciousness huti, coz aisa ksi bandey ki thread pa comment krty hua bunda concious hu jata k pta nahi kia sochay ga thread owner.
Dusra ya k TM personal issues ki jgah nahi ha. Hur koi yaha enjoy krny ata. Mein khud ati hu tu mood set krny ati hu ya hula gulla krny ya sb ko tung krny. Tu jab hur koi ataa hi iss liya tu I don’t think why somebody should hold grudges against anyone. Na tu yaha per ego issues huney chahiya na hi koi aur personal issue. TM apney aap mein aik dunia ha tu usko enjoy kru na ap sab. Hur dunia mein dunia walo k bnaye hua rules bhe huty. Ab iss kaiynat ko dekh lijiya, aap sab Islam ki batein krty tu ya jahan beh tu Allah k bnaye hua rules pa chaalo ha na. Agr wu rules na hu tu sooraj raat k wakt nikly aur chaand subah k wakt. Phir hum insano ko dekh lijiya hum bhe apney liya rules bnatey, k hum na kaisa jeena… kis wakt sona .. kis wakt jagna .. kaisa rehna etc etc. Tu TM beh aisa hi ha rules k daiyre k ander reh kr jeena zaida behtar ha banisbat unko continuously torney k q k hum tor tu detay rules per unka consequences nahi jantey hum. Agr kahein per koi rule ha tu ksi wajah sa hi ha na. Aisa hi tu koi “Beware” ka sign nahi lga deta huta.
3rd issue: TM pa banda bore huta. Kuch hi log yaha nazar atey, wuhi dominant hein aur unhi k posts view kiya jatey aur unhi sa batein ki jati.
My view: TM pa popular huney ka aik raaz mein btana bhol gyi aur wu ha TM ko smujhna, uskey barey mein passionate feel krna, waha pa logo ko smjhna. Srf oper oper sa judge krna hur aik ko bohot asan huta, baat ki aur logo ki teho k ander jaa kr unko janna aur phir opinion banana mushkil huta q k koi bhe insan dusrey ko itni asani sa apney qareeb nahi aney deta. Shru mein jab mein ati the tu mein bhe bore huti the smjh nahi ati the kia kru, friends huney k bavajud mein bore huti the. Per ahista ahista jaisa jaisa mein na TM ko jana tu ya jana k yaha pa paye janey waley log ziada original hein. Shayid uski wjah ya beh ha k yaha bohot sa log different countries mein huty aur bahir k mulku mein koi image conscious nahi huty usey ya dur nahi huta k log kia kahein ga. Tu TM mein bhe ksi ko image conscious nahi dekha mein na. Isey wjah sa unhein kuch chupaney ki zarorat nai mehsos huti. Wu jaisa huty waisa hi bunty bhe hein. Shayid ap different opinion rkhty hu but as I said na mein apki tayid ya tardeed kr rhi na apko apni han mein han milaney ko keh rhi. Jaha tuk dominance ki baat ha tu jinab ju TM ko janta ha uskey barey mein passionate ha tu wu aata beh ha, betahasha dost bhe banata ha, enjoy bhe krta ha. Ziada social cycle huney ko agr ap dominance ka naam detay tu wuhi sahi. Jaha tuk mein janti tu bht sa log yaha ksi aur k tavasut sa aye huty ya shayri wageira k liya join krty. Tu wu TM k liya itney passionate nahi huty. Passionate tu wu huty ju roz apko yaha kuch na kuch kaam krty nazar atey. And hats off to them because it is a big responsibility jis ko wu khush aslobi sa nibhatey q k unko ya koi zimidari ya bujh nahi lgta. Wu khud aisa krna psnd krty.
4th issue: Larkey itna nahi atey , larkiya hi hur jagah nazar ati.
My view: Tu mujhy smjh nahi ati k larkey larko k mizaj ko q nahi smjhty? Larkey teenage group ju ha they are more into games, girls, cricket and at the end studies. Aur farig time mein wu dosto k sath phir rahey huty ya aisa kuch. Aur dusra group 18 onwards huta aur wu basically job kr rhy huty ya phir apni future planning wu na hu tu exams.. they actually have a life. I am sorry to say but Pakistani larkio ki life restricted huti tuhri. Wu purhti hein aur phir unki maou ko huta k chalo g meri beti ghur k kaam sham sekh la tu wu phir wu bhe sekh rahi huti, ya phir jobs kr rhi huti. Tu unka pas ju farig time huta tu wu phir TM ya FB pa hi guzarti mostly. Tu isey liya larkiya ziada nazar ati. Larko ko itni purva nahi huti. Tu agr apko larko wageira ko active krna tu dudes… uskey liya apko aur users nahi chahiya na hi ap unko lambey lambey lecture pila kr TM ka fan bnva skty no. You have to make them passionate about TM. But plz no lectures.. us sa wu bhag jayein ga.
5th issue: TM staff arrogant ha.
My view: Muadabana guzarish ha k aap ksi ka mizaj nahi badal skty. Apna mizaj hur koi khud budlta ha. Tu dusru k mizaj budlny k bijaye ap khud ko hi itna acha bna lein k agla ap ko achi nazar sa dekhna pa majboor hu jaye. Khud ko itna acha buna lein k agla ap k ravaiye mein koi khami na duhnd paye. Itney acha k apkey sath hur koi acha hu jaye. Aur Allah sa dua kriya, umeedain lgani hein tu Allah sa lgayein. Q k wuhi izat deta beh ha aur leta bhe ha. Allah sa dua krein k wu dusru k dil aur zehn apkey liya khol da. Ap sb ko aik dusrey ko smjhny ki taufeek ataa frma. Hum insan aik dusrey k ravaiye dekhta rehta per khud k ander bohot kum jahnktey hein. Dusru ki harkatou ko question krty per apney ravaiye ko nazar andaz krty. Hum kabhi dusrey ko smjhny ki koshish nahi krty. Apni rut lgaye rkhty. Aur ju smjhty bhe hein wu dusrey ko smjha nahi paatey. Iss wajah sa bohot sa clashes hu jatey. Rishtey bnana asan huta nibhana mushkil. Insaniyat k barey mein batein krna asan huta, usko qayim rkhna mushkil. Naiki ap ki count huti ha chahey wu phir ap ghur pa krein ya online ya phir kahein bhe. Apney ird gird beh dehan dein, itney bayakeen mut hu jayein k apney ird gird sa bekhabar hu jayein.
P.S. Ratings k liya bohot kum log care krty aur ju krty wu bhe iss liya krty q k unhu na mehnat ki huti.
LOL Bohot bol liya na
… ap sab bhe kehta hu ga kia pakao larki ha jan hi nahi chorti … Chalo maaf kia Ja putar jee la apni zindagi… Parhney k liya shukriya 
ye na do wo do bla bla.. reason jo b ho rating k issue se mujhy irritation hti hy .. baqi sb ka apna point of view hy 
isliye poora nhi prha.
